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I am a violinist. I also enjoy running, working out, reading, and hanging with my friends and cat.

Part 1: What Happened to Scott?

It’s been a few years since Louie and I did a really long camping road trip, and after our trip last year to the south we started talking about going back to Yellowstone. This led to me setting aside dates, starting to make reservations (if you want specific places in some National Parks you have to reserve months and months in advance) and planning out a trip that would be possible without undo levels of stress and driving, that would be fun, and that we would really enjoy.

In case you are reading this and saying, how? How does she do this? Or, how do YOU do this? I will try to explain along the way how I figured things out and give you advice if you want to plan your own trip. As far as how do I do this? The answer is to be self-employed and/or on a school schedule. I’m both self-employed and teach at universities, which means that my summers are much more flexible. My boyfriend Louie also works at a university, which is why we were able to take the time. It doesn’t come easily, and requires a lot of advance planning and unfortunately a bit of checking in (and yes, I have to turn down jobs, and I feel bad and worry that people will stop hiring me if I turn down jobs for a trip, but I don’t regret it, and I tell myself that it doesn’t matter because living life is more important!). I took off three weeks from teaching and work, so that means three weeks of missed income, but I planned ahead for it so it wasn’t a big deal. In my budget, those three weeks just didn’t exist TO make money.

How do I plan? First, I come up with some general destinations. Louie and I wanted to go to Yellowstone again and also to Glacier NP since it is all the rage these days. I looked at the map (google map is SO your friend in trip planning) and saw that Banff wasn’t tooo far away, and since he’d never been there either, I added it in. Then I started to get into the nitty-gritty of details…when would we leave, how long would it take to get to Yellowstone, etc, and realized that oops, I needed to make my reservations for there first since they were open. Luckily it was no problem and I booked our first camping reservation in late September of last year. I also booked another lodging then, and then did enough research to discover I had months to figure out the rest before reservations opened.

The next step is to research, research. I use guide books to get the gist of a place, I use google to read blogs and reviews, I love the trip advisor forums to get you to slow down and not try to do too much in a given day and to read about other people’s road trips. I use various hiking sites and of course I zoom in on the maps online to see what I’m not seeing and I love the NPS site to see what parks and sites there are in each state along the way. If it takes 10 hours to drive somewhere according to google, don’t forget about stopping for gas and rest stops, plus perhaps a meal or two, unless you have packed something (also a good idea if you are in a rush, pack food). And know yourself: how far can you drive in a day? Oh, and so many campsite photos are available online…you can literally see what your campsite looks like and try to pick exactly the one you want!

There are hundreds of other considerations and things we’ve learned along the way. One modern problem is charging all your devices. We have various plugs in the car for phones, watches, and camera batteries. We also have a few portable batteries that you can charge in the car, and then bring into your tent to charge your phone or have with you on a hike in case of emergency. We set up the car as a wi-fi hot spot, and I downloaded dozens of podcasts ahead of time and we had satellite radio for the first time on this trip as well. It’s a lot to think of, and it’s not all necessary, but other the years we’ve added more and more things to our list. I think for our next trip we will mostly be figuring out what to leave behind rather than adding, as we brought some things we didn’t need!

As I was planning everything during the year, I kept a google doc with all the information in order. I like to leave each day open when we can, so instead of saying do this hike on this day, I had a list of possible activities for each location and then we could decided based on our mood. It’s also important to know that Louie is not as much of a planner as I am, and he would prefer to simply hit the road with a general destination in mind and see how the road takes us. But if you do that these days you’ll arrive at an overcrowded park with nowhere to stay, and end up spending (in my opinion) way too much time seeking out accommodations and driving around instead of enjoying your preplanned destinations. Yes, you lose some flexibility, but that’s why I try to leave it in our day to day activities. I think this trip I did a good job giving enough wiggle room to poke around here or slow down there, while making sure we knew how long we had to get to each major destination.

So! Perhaps you didn’t care about any of that, but I told you anyway. If you’ve skipped down to here because there’s a picture, great!

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Day 0: We loaded up the vehicle. Louie recently got a new car, a Subaru Forester, and we were excited to take it on this trip. In the past we’d taken the Corolla (including when the bear attacked it) so we thought the Forester would be roomier and better for this sort of trip. We were correct, though it wasn’t as roomy as we hoped!

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(This was some sort of statue at a rest area in Nebraska.)

Day 1: St Louis to Gering, Nebraska. Our first stop would be to visit Scottsbluff National Monument. First we had to drive about 12 and 1/2 hours to our hotel in Gering, which wasn’t ideal, but not bad when you are fresh and excited to go on vacation. We left before 8 am, and stopped in St Joseph, MO at a place called “Le Peep” for lunch. The drive was mostly uneventful, but notably we drove along some major flooding on I-29 in Missouri (the Missouri River was way out of line) before heading into Nebraska. I know Nebraska had a lot of flooding as well but we didn’t see it so much from the highways we were on. We didn’t stop for dinner as I’d packed sandwiches (they weren’t great, but Louie and I have the philosophy of, not every meal has to be amazing) and plus, it was getting to be a long day. We were enjoying the view…it isn’t particularly scenic in Nebraska, but it’s different than St Louis.

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Here you can see there’s a storm in the distance, and yes, we drove through it. Finally we arrived at the Arcadia Motel in Gering, Nebraska. This was a highly rated two star motel, a place to sleep and nothing more. I would recommend it to other travelers, as they were very nice. The a/c unit was loud, but that’s to be expected.

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Little towel animal was a fun touch.

Day 2: The next morning we got up early and got breakfast at a nearby Taco John’s. The hotel sold $2 vouchers for breakfast, which was a pretty good deal. Neither of us had been to a Taco John’s before, so it was a bit of an adventure. I recommend going if you can, so you can experience the oddity of all the menu items being approximately the same thing, and also the potato ole’s which are my new favorite thing. We didn’t finish our meals so we brought the leftover ole’s along. (They are sort of like tater tot’s). Anyway, according to my itinerary we had up to 3 hours to spend at Scottsbluff National Monument, and so we headed there!

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You might think of Nebraska as flat and boring, but that’s not all!

We hiked the trail to the top of the monument first, and it was very nice after being stuck in the car the whole day before.

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This sign says, “Hiram Scott, employee of the Rocky Mountain Fur Company, died in the vicinity of this bluff in 1828, after being deserted by his companions near the junction of the Laramie and North Platte Rivers.” I saw that and said, wow that sounds terrible, and there must be a story to it! We ran into a ranger a bit after and asked him, and he said it seemed that Scott was quite injured and was needing to be carried and the whole party was starving to death, and they needed to catch up with some people they saw way in the distance, and had to leave him behind or they would all die…very sad either way!

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My constant fear: falling!

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Louie standing in a tunnel blasted out of the bluff to hike through.

After we hiked up and down, we did another hike along where the Oregon Trail would have gone (there are wagon ruts and such) and then we drove to the top of the Bluff and down (I generally hate hiking up to where one can drive, but the first hike was highly recommended anyway).

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Not real oxen, but they were real.

Then we hit the road, heading for Red Lodge, Montana where we would spend the night. We drove through Wyoming along the way, and made it to our hotel by dinnertime. I chose the Yodeler Motel because I remembered seeing it once when we drove through Red Lodge a few years ago, but it was also recommended by Moon Travel Guides. It was a nice place, but I’d decided to save a few bucks and get a lower level room and I wished I hadn’t done that. It was fine though, and we walked to dinner at Bogart’s and had tacos and margs and relaxed after two long days of driving!

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Day 3: We woke up and walked to a place for breakfast called Prindy’s Place. It looked okay, but as we sat waiting (the service was slow because they were short staffed) we started to realize there were some right-winger signs around, and in retrospect, we wished we had left and found somewhere else—not JUST because of the rude signs about Obama (that we didn’t notice for 20 minutes or so) but also because of the bad service (probably nobody wanted to work there for a reason, honestly) and then the food wasn’t too good either. It took over an hour to get and eat a few pancakes and eggs. Oh well! I hate to ALWAYS google a place and sometimes like to find something that looks busy and convenient, but mistakes can be made. We hated giving them our money though.

After breakfast, which frankly made America less great,  it was time to drive the Beartooth Highway into Yellowstone! We’d left Yellowstone via the highway before, but Louie enjoyed driving it so much we wanted to do it again, so that was the plan!

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The Beartooth Highway is an real feat of engineering, and a windy and amazing road. Personally I would be terrified of driving it, but Louie really enjoys this sort of thing, so it works well! The views are amazing and we stopped as often as we could to take pictures and soak it all in. OH, and one time we stopped because I REALLY needed a bathroom and we finally found it…you know you are in a hurry when you tell the driver to pull up as close as possible so you can run out. Best bathroom ever.IMG_7048IMG_7069IMG_7064

You can see the road in the background there—I believe that picture is from the highest point, or one of them. There is lots of hiking around, but we only did a tiny bit of walking here and there, and the bugs were honestly pretty bad. We had a little lunch at the Top of the World store (well, tried to eat hummus/pita and string cheese outside but the mosquitoes were unbearable) and then kept going. The road shoots you out into Cooke City finally, then Silver Gate, and then before you know it you are showing your National Parks pass at the gate for…Yellowstone!

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And that’s where I’ll stop for now.

I’ll add one more thing: no matter how many pictures I take, and I took a lot, I always wish I had a few more! No pictures of Cooke City to show you, no way to truly capture the awesome views from the Top of the World, no picture of the cute little store called the Top of World, etc.

Next: Yellowstone! Stay tuned and let me know if you have any questions!

Awesome Road Trip!

I’m back! We got home around noon today from a 22 day trip, and it was amazing. I’ll tell you all about it over the next few weeks.

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Highlights:

1) A small herd of elk going right by our campground one night in Banff, bugling and grazing as they went along.

2) Two mountain goats running right by us as we were resting on a rock on the Highline Trail in Glacier National Park.

3) Drinking tea and eating scones at Lake Agnes Teahouse and at the Six Glaciers Teahouses in the Lake Louise area. You had to hike into these teahouses.

4) Walking on the Athabasca Glacier along the Icefields Parkway.

5) Seeing a male bighorn sheep in the Badlands. And loads of prairie dogs.

6) Seeing a bunch of black bears along the side of the road in Glacier, on the way to Banff, and on the Icefields Parkway.

7) Watching the full moon move across the sky in Theodore Roosevelt Park.

8) Bison. So many bison. I love them.

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9) Relaxing at night in front of a campfire.

10) Waking up and going to sleep in amazing, beautiful locations…and having nothing to do all day except explore those locations!

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Things I’m happy to leave behind:

1) Showering in flip flops and trying to avoid getting your fresh clothes wet as the curtain sticks to you.

2) Mosquitoes…so many mosquitoes.

3) Washing dishes in cold water. Why? Canada managed to have hot water, why can’t Yellowstone?

4) Being cold at night…though it might beat being too hot!

5) Traffic and crowds vying for various viewpoints, parking spots, hiking trails.

6) People playing loud music in campgrounds rather than being quiet enough so that a herd of elk might just wander by.

7) People littering along the trails, dropping trash in the public bathrooms, and feeding small wildlife to get a good picture.

8) Living out of the car and feeling Iike I’m never quite clean ever after a shower.

9) Having to grab a head lamp and put on shoes to use the bathroom in the middle of the night.

10) Worrying whether the rain will ruin dinner plans or whether you’ll have to set up or pack up the tent in the rain.

Overall, it was an amazing trip. Everything went well enough according to plan, and there were thankfully no major incidents or mishaps. It was wonderful! I am so glad that we had the opportunity to go on this wonderful trip, and I’m glad we are back and I feel refreshed, tired, and ready to get back to my “real life”. I feel like my hard work getting reservations, my planning, and my organization mostly paid off, and there wasn’t much I would have changed about our itinerary. It was awesome, and like I said, exhausting. I have so many pictures to go through, and I’m working my way through loads of laundry (and emails!). I’m back to work tomorrow, but I’m excited about the fall semester, and I’m so grateful we made it home safe and sound.

Chautauqua and more

It’s been a busy couple of weeks with travel and visiting family.

Louie and I went to Chautauqua, NY to spend a few days visiting my sister Leslie and her family there. Her husband is in the orchestra and she subs, so they spend the summer there. (He is a cellist, she’s a violinist like me). Leslie recently had her second baby, my first nephew, so we were excited to see him again.

We stayed at the Pine Hill Resort near their house. This was a great place to stay, because it was close, quiet, and clean. What more could you want in a hotel? We didn’t spend much time on the property, but there is a boat dock and you can get right down to the lake. The room had a lot of pine and smelled very nice!

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It was a relaxing few days. We walked around, had some nice meals, saw Bemus Point, Mayville, hiked in Chautauqua Gorge, walked around the grounds of Chautauqua, saw a ballet, hung out with my niece and nephew a lot, went to Southern Tier Brewing Company, and went to a barbecue. Louie went sailing and I spent time on the beach.

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The town of Bemus Point was adorable. Very quiet, calm, and what you’d expect for a lakeside resort town.

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Athena liked the tiny chairs.

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Luca’s face is too chonky!

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We enjoyed the lake breezes!

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Louie and I took a hike along the Chautauqua Gorge. We took a few pictures but my eyes were closed in all of them. Fail.

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We hope to go back next summer for a longer visit! There was more to do in the area, and along the way (for instance, we drove right by Cleveland without stopping and I’d love to take a day and look up some old friends to visit and see where I used to live and show Louie!) It’s also not terribly far from Niagara Falls and Louie has never been there.

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Also, this guy.

When we got back to St Louis we only had a few hours until my sister Carrie visited. She normally lives in NYC but had been in Minnesota and then Chicago so she popped over to visit for a few days. It was incredibly hot here at that time, so we mostly just hung out inside, but we also went to the Art Museum and the Campbell House Museum.

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This cat might have missed us while we were gone.

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Lots of great artwork. I think the St Louis Art Museum is really great—it’s not huge or overwhelming, but just really well done.

There are tons more pictures on my instagram, so go check that out if you haven’t!

Now I have 5 days, counting today, until we hit the road for a longer time. I’ve been planning this upcoming road trip since last September, so I really can’t believe it’s almost here! We’ve already assembled and organized all our camping gear (which is no small feat) and the only things left to do are to finish packing our clothes, load the car, take care of the cat and the house, and hit the road! Well, and a million other things, plus working this week, but rest assured, I’ve got lists and plans made, and it will all work out. Our biggest concerns are bears, hailstorms, and flash floods.

More than half of the Year Gone

I know we are all saying this, but how is it already July? And well into July. I was thinking about time the other day. You know how as you get older times feels like it flies by much faster…but does it actually? Can I accomplish and learn as much in the next ten years as I did in the last? I hope so, because I realized one of the things I want to do is read as many books as possible and learn as much about history as I can…though I’m more interested in historical fiction right now. I’m tearing through all the Philippa Gregory books in order and having a good time with it (and soooo glad I wasn’t born in the middle ages).

This week has been a bit hectic! We are preparing to head out of town for a short trip but I’ve had quite a few things going on in addition to prepping for that, my sister Carrie’s visit immediately after, and then only about a week until we leave for our epic road trip. It’s a lot, and Louie is more stressed than me, but I think we can handle it. I think my planning is done for the trip, and all that’s left is to pack, take care of the house, and actually do the trip! I woke up in the middle of the night twice last night to use the bathroom and thought to myself, oh my gosh why are we going camping because peeing in the middle of the night is so much harder while camping and also bears????

We had our annual “fourth of July” bbq on Saturday, but unlike normal years when it coincides with the Sublette Park fireworks, this year it didn’t as we are gone visiting family during that time. So we had a smaller crowd but it was a nice time anyway. The morning of July 4th Louie and I ran a 5k downtown here, and it was fun! I didn’t finish with any exciting time or anything (45:10) but it was a good run for me, based on where I am now with my running (slow). A woman found me in the crowd and decided I had a good pace and chatted with me the whole time..at first I was like, okayyyy, but then she was really nice and ended up being very encouraging and pushed me a bit, so I’m really glad she did. Afterwards Louie and I had a wonderful day off alternating yard and housework with watching episodes of Big Little Lies (loving the show!).

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The race gave out medals, which was a little overkill, but hey, I’ll take it! And tiny pies.

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A beautiful day! Lots of weaving around walkers at the beginning though, so I wasn’t THAT slow, I guess.

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I saw this on timehop the other day. I believe this was shortly before I moved here…I sometimes miss my previous life, before moving to St Louis, because I get frustrated at the “small-town” feel here, but I think I can finally say I’m glad I’m here (Louie of course!) and I’ve met some great people and I am enjoying my life quite a bit. It’s been a struggle here, and I still feel like I don’t have much of a support group around me other than Louie, but I think friendship looks very different in your 40s than it does earlier in life. I know people who do things with friends several times a week, and perhaps live near them, and randomly hang out, but between not having kids (so often that is what brings people together) and working late too many nights, it’s just not a part of my life. I have a million students, more jobs than I can count, and I can see myself keeping this up and continuing my career as it is, so I think that I have achieved success. Or something Smile

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And now I have to make lunch, teach for about 5 hours, and then go play at the MUNY as a last minute replacement for a show…for one night, because of my trip. Every time I go on a trip I end up having to turn down work, but when I look back on my life I usually remember the trips more than the work, so I don’t feel bad choosing a balance. I do sometimes wish things lined up a little differently, but the truth is we can’t have it all, we can’t do all the gigs and teach all the students and have all the jobs AND have friends and family and vacations. But we can do many of the gigs and teach many students and many jobs and have some friends and see family and take a few trips, and that’s what I’m doing.

And we can read many but never all of the books! But I’ll keep at it.

10 Things Tuesday

 

Here’s a bunch of random stuff I’ve been doing and thinking. Enjoy!

1. Time is such an odd thing. On the one hand, I feel like June went by super fast. On the other hand, my birthday (near the beginning of June) seems really far away. So the summer is both flying by and yet going quite slowly. I can’t believe THIS is the month we leave for our big road trip, and yet, I’ve been waiting for it for so long, of course it is nearly here and we are ready and excited.

2. I had this thought recently that, yes, this is my life now. I spent so much of my childhood and adult life getting ready for the future, planning, preparing, working hard to get somewhere to do something else, and it takes some time to let things sink in and settle in to: this is it, this is how my life is, and (more importantly) to say, hey this is pretty good. That last part has been a difficult one to get to, but I think on more days than not, I can say, this is good, this is a life I am happy with. Of course, it’s summer, and things are more relaxed and I’m not stressed out…so who knows.

3. I got to play with Weird Al Yankovic the other weekend. It was super fun, though we didn’t get to meet him or anything. One of my former (adult) students said to me, If I’d know I could have played with Weird Al someday I would have practiced harder when I was a kid!

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4. The heat of summer is finally here, and it’s been muggy. Over the weekend we still did some outdoor activities, including going to the Opera (can you believe I’d never actually SEEN the Marriage of Figaro even though I’d played it)(and you ask, how is that outdoors, it’s because there was a pre-opera dinner outside in a tent, and post-opera snacks and drinks to do, and I naturally got bug bites), and going on a hike to Buford Mountain, which we’d done before in November, and it was still a nice view, but much harder and more buggy.

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Not a bad view for Missouri though. It’s a great hike, but perhaps better in the fall or winter…unfortunately summer is when we have more time, and we like to stay in hiking shape as well.

5. Still no Miles, in case you were wondering. My black cat has been missing since 4/20…

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6. I had to make a couple of phone calls to various businesses today, which I hate doing. In both cases I was on hold for 5-10 minutes, and I’m like, with today’s technology, why is this a thing I must do? Can’t they have this online or at least, call me back when they are free instead of me having to listen to loud music or worse, a constant announcement telling me how my call is soon to be answered? I know there are bigger problems in the world, but still, we have enough people to cover this one too.

7. I’ve been doing tons of reading over the summer. There are two great things the public library offers. One is free kindle books, and  the other is the ability to kind of order your books ahead of time. Using the website, you can put a hold on any book in the library and then they’ll email you when they have it ready. You go in to your local branch, show your library card, and boom! you have your books. I believe you can even just call when you arrive and they’ll bring them to out to the car, but I think that is more for people with mobility issues (it’s not a drive through type thing, they would have to literally walk out to you, so I would feel bad doing that, but if you had trouble getting around, or had several kids in the car, I can see that being a terrific option!).

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8. I haven’t been getting to everything I thought I would this summer. I am okay with that. My house still needs a lot of work, but I am growing to accept that the house is a work in progress, and I remind myself of two things: progress is being made, and yet progress is difficult when Louie is working full-time and pursuing a doctorate and that’s okay. We don’t need to impress anybody (we certainly aren’t) but it just needs to be a comfortable and safe place to live. I am still working on decluttering, but I can’t Konmari stuff that isn’t mine, and I am one of those people that is okay with small, steady changes. Overtime things have gotten more organized and less cluttered, and we will continue in that direction. I did have “finish organizing my music collection” on my list, but I just haven’t felt like it. I’ve made small steps, but I have too much music for the shelves allotted and haven’t quite figured out what to do with that…I might just have to take some music and put it in a closet for the time being and just make some labels for the rest and call it a day for it.

9. Louie and I are running a 5k downtown this Thursday! I’ve been doing a training program for it, and while I have been running really slow (seriously slow, turtle speed) I’ve been doing it. My plan is to run the whole race and not walk, and ideally finish in less than 45 minutes. Truly jogging, but it’s hard for me, so there. I know I used to run more and I was faster, and truly growing old, getting busier, and gaining some weight made things harder. I’ve been enjoying running though, and I do want to be active enough that I can just do things like a six mile hike (like yesterday) and it’s not a big deal. Running has always been hard for me, but I’m looking forward to the race (though of course, not the 7:30 am start and 6:30 am packet pickup). What are you doing on the 4th? After the race we are mostly just going to do some things to prep for our annual BBQ which is on Saturday (generally our neighborhood park has fireworks that day, but this year they are postponing it to a date we can’t do, so we are doing the BBQ nonetheless).

10. My band had a listening party at the Tick Tock Tavern for our CD which is coming out this summer. It was a lot of fun, even though you couldn’t hear the music so well over people chatting. We are putting the finishing touches on the CD and working on the cover and whatnot, and then we have two CD release concerts planned in September. The band is one of those activities that I really enjoy, but don’t actually have the time for! I’ve learned a lot about music working with Meghan and Michael though, and they are two of the nicest and kindest musicians I’ve ever known.

(Us from sometime in the past, probably in the fall or winter based on our dress.)

That’s ten things Tuesday for you!

Phoenix, Lewis and Clark, Etc.

Oh my goodness! I decided to spend more of my free time reading books and less of it doing other stuff, so I haven’t told you about anything lately. (I’ve developed an obsession with the Philippa Gregory books.)

I promised I’d tell you about our hike on the Lewis and Clark Trail the other day.

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We’d hoped to do the whole thing, but it turned out part of it was underwater, so we hiked about 3 miles and turned back when we had to. It was a nice hike! Pretty busy, some bugs, a little humid, but it’s a very scenic hike (for Missouri…) and it was enjoyable.

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Where the trail ended. It’s a loop so we could have hiked from the opposite direction as well, but we went the more popular way.

Afterwards we needed to use the restroom, so we popped into the Weldon Springs Conservation Area Interpretive Center. Um, that place was a little crazy.

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Those rocks are covering a pile of stuff that is covering up all sorts of radioactive material. It’s perfectly safe, they say, but it’s pretty crazy that it exists, and that you can climb up the mountain! Between that and watching Chernobyl…anyway, the Center is worth a stop in and the two rangers working there (a husband and wife team) were very knowledgeable and eager to share their knowledge with visitors. And the bathrooms were excellent.

Over the last weekend I went to Phoenix to visit my sister Leslie and her family, including my brand new nephew! It was a low key visit as far as leaving the house to do things, because it was a bit too hot outside for much activity, and especially activity involving a very tiny baby. We did go to a neat brewery and a “build your own enchilada” place, and we got Stroopwaffle McFlurries.

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Tonight we are going to a Young Friends Opera performance. Tomorrow I’m playing with Weird Al (so fun!!) and then Sunday is a day off and dinner with my friend April who is visiting from Atlanta. Looking forward to it!