Category Archives: Christmas

Boxing Day

Merry Christmas to all who celebrate! We had a lovely day off work and today we are going to do some outdoor activities and visit a museum briefly before holing up inside again.

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I didn’t blog earlier because I got into “holiday” mood which meant after I finished teaching I didn’t want to do anything on the computer. The whole month of December felt like just treading water getting to the end of the semester, and while no, things weren’t as busy as normal years, I was so tired of teaching online and really needed a break. I’m glad to be here, and I’m also glad I had a few Christmas gigs to play, either recorded or livestreaming in front of no congregation at the church.

December flew by, didn’t it? I was extra busy with some things at work, an online class and a writing gig I picked up. I also did a lot of baking, as you know, and then put a bunch of goodies into boxes for my parents, my siblings, and my aunt Connie who has been coming to our weekly zoom calls.

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The postal service was destroyed by DeJoy though, and this meant that I couldn’t send “de Joy” before Christmas to my aunt or my brother, since they live too near Philadelphia. My parents, in small town South Carolina got their box in 5 days, my sister Carrie in New York in 1 week, and my sister Leslie in Phoenix in 9 days. The other two are “delayed” and sitting in processing centers. Priority mail flat-rate, y’all, and I worry this Christmas will be the final nail in the coffin as an excuse for the GOP to destroy the USPS for good. Just ask yourselves, why didn’t they hire more workers? They still could. They hired 50,000 extra seasonal workers, but why not more? There are millions upon millions out of work who might have loved a seasonal job for the USPS. Obviously that wasn’t enough people to do the work. I only hope my packages arrive in the next week or so, but I don’t know. I was pleased that the ones that were delivered arrived in good shape, however.

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We finished celebrating Hanukkah and made latkes from scratch twice. I teach late, usually until 8 or 8:30 each night, and it gets dark here at 4:30-4:45 in December, which meant that we didn’t light the candles until I was done working. It was a nice ending to the night, and I also lit an electric menorah in the front since our candlelighting wasn’t able to be in a good window due to the house setup and the cats.

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I kept teaching until the 22nd, mostly because 1) my school job went until then and 2) I have jury duty starting Jan 4 and wanted to start back teaching on the 6th and give two weeks vacation. Nobody was going anywhere really, though more students were traveling and seeing family than I would feel comfortable doing, but what can you do? Also I have my worries about jury duty and it was already canceled before and I feel like it has more reason to be canceled in January than ever, but I also don’t have a good doctor’s excuse to cancel it and I really just want to get it over with.

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I played a livestream service on Christmas Eve and then had a late dinner of appetizers with Louie.

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Shrimp cocktail and a cheese ball. I enjoyed this cheese ball but wished it were more cheddar-y, so I probably won’t make this exact recipe again. We also had some homemade (with alcohol) eggnog I’d made the night before. I fell into the aged eggnog rabbit hole on the internet and may be trying that next year…anybody do aged eggnog?

Louie and I decided not to exchange Christmas gifts (this is our general tradition) so that meant Christmas Day we had literally nothing to do… and it was glorious! We had a late brunch of bagels, smoked salmon, and french omelets, then watched TV all day while Louie worked on putting together a 3D printer for the house. We watched a few Christmas shows first, Charlie Brown Christmas and It’s a Wonderful Life, then watched a few episodes of the Great British Baking Show. We also talked with some family members and sent a lot of text messages.

I made a nice Christmas dinner for us of a Ground Beef Wellington, except with Impossible Beef, creamed spinach, a roasted vegetable salad, and a cranberry mostada. It all turned out really well except the spinach was super bland, which was disappointing as the recipe had looked really promising to me.

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Then back to 3D printer assembling and I started watching Schitt’s Creek, which Louie had seen some of but I had only watched one episode. I think I must have watched 8 more episodes before going to bed! Somewhere in there we had dessert.

I don’t know what led to this, but Louie and I had been talking about fruitcake at some point, and I had been searching the internet and found there was this supposedly delicious fruitcake made by trappist monks in Missouri. So I bought one and it had been waiting until this moment.

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You may have an idea of fruitcake being really bad or bricklike…this fruitcake wouldn’t have appealed to me as a kid, but it was delicious! Full of nuts, fruit, moist cake, and the aroma of rum or brandy or some combination. I thoroughly enjoyed my piece, and there will be more eaten in the future. Perhaps this is a new Christmas tradition.

Anyway, the next week stretches ahead. There isn’t much to do, is there, due to the pandemic. I have a few things I want to do around the house, and of course take down the Christmas decorations before school starts up, but I think I’ll leave them up through the New Year now, and continue enjoying the lights and such. I did do a little needlepoint yesterday and will likely do some of that again.

Happy Christmas to you, if you celebrate. Do you have some days off of work? What are you doing over the break? Did you celebrate the holidays in unusual ways this year?

December Flies By

I remember when I was a child my mom would say, oh I can’t believe it’s almost Christmas again! And I would think, what are you talking about lady, it’s been FOREVER since last Christmas and this is the slowest month ever! (I wouldn’t actually call her lady, I’m taking a little poetic license here.)

In any case, I definitely  understand her sentiment now. Didn’t we just have a Christmas and now there’s another one? I’m so glad I had a huge family gathering last year and that we got to spend a few days together, since things look…a little different this year.

But things are good. I’ve done a fair amount of baking, and I added some decorations. We’ve also been celebrating Hanukkah in the household here since that’s also part of Louie’s background, and I figured we should celebrate his background as well as mine. I’m sure our holiday celebrations offend equally, but I’m also sure there are plenty of households out there who have reason to celebrate both holidays, and this year is definitely a year to find celebration where one can. It’s good to sit and reflect, and (in my viewpoint) consider where you’ve come from and what you can do in your life to make the world a better place. I hope my violin lessons and classes do that, help each student to have a better day and to be a better person through music.

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I had bought a cheap tree topper star a few years ago at Target and it broke this year. I was looking online to see what to have and found an awesome and gaudy light up star that you just plug into your existing light plugs (which I happened to have on top of the tree.) It did require a mechanical engineer to get it to stay on top of the tree, but it brings me great joy.

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I’ve been doing a “series” on Instagram with an ornament a day. This violin was a gift from my first violin teacher and I love it.

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The cats enjoying each other’s company. Or something!

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This little fellow is happy even without one of his arms!

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The first night of Hanukkah. Latkes, beet salad, a bit of caviar (we are fancy like that). We even played a bit of dreidel as we watched the candles burn.

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I made a delicious orange chocolate chip ricotta cookie that will go on my “make again” list.

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I remember reading a book in which the Gingerbread Man was a dangerous serial killer but no one could catch him. What book was that? Jasper Fforde?

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Louie mentioned that eating blintzes was something he had done as a boy during Hanukkah so I made some one morning. They were great!

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I got a new nutcracker from World Market. They do a limited edition each year and I’ve gotten in the habit of buying it (at least I have the past few years.) Each year it’s a different Santa, usually something from around the world, and this year was Mexican. He is a cute little guy.

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A few more nights of lights. We don’t have a good place to light the menorah safely in front of a window (cats, cats, cats) but I have a delightful electric menorah in the front window that I turn on each night of Hanukkah.

Louie isn’t a real “plan for the holidays” sort of person, but I realized after a few years of decorating for Christmas that he was feeling like it wasn’t exactly right for his traditions without including Hanukkah. Since doing so last year, I could tell it meant a lot to him and that he enjoyed feeling more a part of the celebrations. He’s not a religious person, but he has his own traditions and sense of self, and holidays are such a part of that, aren’t they?

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Blue crinkle cookies in honor of our shared traditions. I started making these…last year..and I took a recipe, made it vegan to share with Louie’s brother, and they tasted sort of weird and like playdough. I made them again this year but a different way and they taste like weird cookies with a fake banana flavor, which is crazy because I used real bananas!

How is your month going? What unusual or strange traditions do you have in your house?

Happy Holidays

My goodness, the last week was a whirlwind. I’m sitting along in my house now, well, alone with my cat, and it just seems so quiet.

This year Louie and I decided to celebrate Hanukkah as well-he has a tradition of celebrating Hanukkah as well alongside Christmas in his family background and I thought it would be nice to learn about it as well. We lit the candles nearly every night and it was very beautiful.

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And then nearly my whole family came to stay for the week for Christmas. I think I decided on this back in August and I certainly spent enough time planning. I will say, my planning paid off, because we had tons of food and plenty of fun, though I probably made too much food.

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(Athena and my mom singing the 12 days of Christmas)

Oh my gosh, we had a wonderful time all being together! My sister Leslie arrived first on the 23rd with her husband Peter and two kids, then my parents the next day. Christmas Eve we woke up early and started baking and cooking, and then I worked two church services, and we  had a lovely party in between services (shrimp, herring, potatoes with cheese, cheeseballs, cookies, and more) with Louie’s family as well.

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(My sister Leslie put together a beautiful table spread)

I finally got home around 11:30 pm and was so glad to officially be on vacation!

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Athena and Luca

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(This was the day before Christmas—the stockings were hung on the chimney with care)

Christmas morning also started early, as my niece Athena is 5 and was very excited for her stocking and for everybody to get up (mostly the latter—she had already received a fair number of gifts and wasn’t as excited about them as we might have hoped, but she did her best to show gratitude and certainly was thrilled with her gift from Santa, a small stuffed flying pig).

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We opened gifts and stockings for a bit, then had our family’s somewhat traditional Christmas brunch with cinnamon rolls, cheese grits and a breakfast casserole with eggs and sausage. After that it was more cooking because we were doing a sit down Christmas dinner for 12!

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(This called for the selfie stick!) I had been running around like a madman to prepare this meal, and the two meals prior, and it paid off (mostly, as I did have a few “get out of the kitchen” or “I don’t want to have to tell you how to help, I just want you to help” breakdowns).

One of my favorite things we did this year was my grandmother’s date pudding recipe which I will blog about separately as you all need this recipe in your life. I may also mention some of the other recipes later as well, as mostly I loved everything we made and the majority of it was foods we had loved in our past. This was definitely a throwback Christmas time where we all tried to have our favorites.

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My nephew Luca really loved my dad. We thought maybe he thought he was Santa Smile

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The next day was supposed to be nearly 70 degrees outside (thanks climate change) so we decided it was a good day for the zoo. It was also Louie’s last day with the family as he was flying out the next day to visit his dad’s side of the family, so Athena was eager to spend quality time with him. We hit the zoo early to beat the crowds and had a great time walking around seeing all the animals.

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We are standing behind a sign about the Three Sisters.

The rest of the afternoon we just relaxed around the house, taking a walk up to the nearby playground (though I don’t have kids, it’s great to live in a neighborhood with a nearby playground), and ate leftovers. Then we headed over to Louie’s mom’s house for dinner, where she served a traditional Swedish feast of meatballs, potatoes, and Princess Cake.

Louie left early the next morning…well, he was supposed to. His flight was originally at 7 am but didn’t leave until 8:30 pm, but it just kept getting pushed back so he sadly spent the day at the airport, but he said he got some good work done. Some of the rest of us went to the City Museum, which I always say isn’t my favorite and is too loud, but I ended up having a great time.

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We saw a hilarious one man circus act as well. We didn’t get home until after 2 pm and ate a lunch of leftovers again (we kept chipping away at the Christmas dinner dishes and desserts) before going to Grbic to celebrate my parents’ 51st wedding anniversary.

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After those few busy days, the last full day we decided just to relax for real. We did hit up the playground, but mostly we all just played games and relaxed around the house. Athena learned to play Uno and some of us did some crafting as well.

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Everybody left on the 29th—my parents and Leslie’s family after lunch, and my sister Carrie in the evening—we went to Target and watched some Netflix before she left…and now it’s just me!

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I don’t have much going on this week so I plan to work out every day, do some practicing, put away the Christmas decorations, and finish up a few small cross-stitch projects. It’s going to be relaxing! I have a few things planned with friends as well, but it’s mostly just me and Muriel until Louie gets back.

How was your holiday celebration, if you had one? Are you doing anything for New Year’s Eve?

Let it snow

We had a snowy weekend! Sunday afternoon it started snowing off and on, through Monday evening. I had a rehearsal Sunday afternoon that ended up getting rescheduled for Tuesday, right during my teaching day. I technically could have said I wasn’t free during that time, but it was for a concert this Friday that I thought was important to do well, so all my students got a break. (Only one was able to reschedule, unfortunately.) I have to remember to give them their holiday gifts in January—I got all my students a little token gift (inspiration from another teacher friend, a small nail clippers! because you need short nails to play the violin, and candy).

We ended up starting on finishing the bathroom remodel on Monday (tiling the shower stall to make it usable for next week is the plan) and then working into Tuesday morning as well. I helped Louie with the tiling on Monday night and Tuesday morning, but there are things that he needs to do while I’m working the next few days. We are on a tight schedule and I can’t quite imagine getting it all done in time, but I’m hopeful.

The living room is full of bathroom related stuff. I’m doing my best not to go insane because I’d been working the past few weeks to clean everything up and now this bathroom project is really messing up that, but I am hopeful that behind the bathroom clutter (and also similar in the basement) it will be better, and that getting the shower done is a general positive step in the right direction and I will get over the fact that the timing couldn’t actually be worse. Yes, it’s better timing to get a second shower working in time for extra visitors, but this was already a busy week jam packed with errands and extra things to do.

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I got these amazing looking cinnamon rolls baked on Monday (and frozen). I used my grandmother’s recipe, which rises overnight, so I started them on Sunday afternoon. Some of her recipe is a little vague, but I managed, and then I did decide to use a butter cream icing instead of simple a powdered sugar one. I read a lot of blogs online telling me not to freeze all my cookies and cinnamon rolls, and how you should freeze the dough and freshly bake them, but honestly people, how do you prepare ahead otherwise? My mom has always been the queen of freezing and thawing baked goods (and other things) and it’s always turned out fine. In any case, I got to a post by the Pioneer Woman about cinnamon rolls and she goes over all the ways you can freeze them (unbaked, uniced, done) and basically she says, yeah, I freeze them iced and reheat and they taste amazing, and I felt like we are all vindicated.

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I finished this little ornament for the tree. I like to think the cat is Miles.

In any case, I’m off to run some errands (grocery shopping mostly) and later I have a double rehearsal (that means two rehearsals). Louie is hard at work on the bathroom this morning (the semester is over so he has a more flexible schedule) and hopefully we can do it all!

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas

I did it, you guys, I put up a tree!

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Look closely, if you think you only see one cat. There are two.

I put up my fake tree and pretty much right away Muriel started climbing up the middle of it. I left it undecorated for about a day, but nothing really bad happened, so I figured, what the heck, I’ll decorate the rest of it. I decided not to put out any breakable or exceptional ornaments so they couldn’t break anything that would upset me. It has been a hoot, I tell you, a hoot.

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I feel like everything is really festive right now! It’s actively snowing as I write, I have all sorts of decorations, I’m in the middle of writing/addressing Christmas Cards (if you want one, email me your address), and it’s just a good time. I’m brainstorming what kind of cookies to bake this year: I think I’ll make two kinds for Christmas, so I’m trying to settle on what those should be.  I’m thinking of doing jam-filled butter cookies and something chocolate-y. If you have alternate cookie suggestions let me know!

I am a little weird, as you know, and I realized that I’m not one of those musicians who hates Christmas music. I actually really enjoy it! I am not even playing as much of it this year as some years-last year I had a rehearsal for a gig that isn’t Christmas music, and one of my colleagues commented that she was relieved to play non-Christmas music for once, and it took me aback a little, because I love Christmas music. Now, I suppose maybe I’m forgetting things, or maybe I’m just hormonal, but that’s how I feel right now. I’ve only played one actual Christmas gig so far, so I’m certainly not overwhelmed by the music yet, and I always love this time of year!

I think another reason I’m feeling festive is that the end of the semester is so close, and this fall has been particularly hard. I finally got to have lunch with a friend I hadn’t been able to see for quite some time and it was really nice! I definitely haven’t been spending much time with friends and I miss it. I chat with my students and parents and colleagues, but it’s not the same when you’re on the clock, is it? I do value some of those relationships quite a lot too, and I know this time of our lives can be the busiest. All those people say that being busy for busy’s sake isn’t good, but what about just being busy because there is simply too much to do? This is why I’m happy to step back a little right now!

I’m looking forward to this weekend. Louie and I are going to see the Symphony play the Messiah (to a musician, this might sound insane, but Louie has never seen the Messiah that he can remember, and he thought it sounded like fun, and you know what, I probably haven’t seen it either!), and we are going to the Lafayette Square Tour of Homes on Sunday. I’ve also got a Viola Christmas event on Saturday organized by my friend Eliana, a student’s Senior Recital to attend, and a couple of gigs, one Christmas music, one not. It should be a good weekend!

Okay so in the comments, tell me your favorite holiday cookies/recipes! Email me if you want a holiday card Smile

Christmas Eve Eve

I was visiting my maternal grandparents, and I remember being in the front seat of the car with my grandpa. It was one of those large cars with a bench seat in the front, and we’d fight over who got to sit in the middle of the front. He leaned towards me with a twinkle in his eye and told me that today, December 23rd, was Christmas Eve Eve.

I’m sure he wasn’t the first to think of it, but that’s one of the memories I have of him. You know how memory works. It’s a collection of flash moments. Feelings. Images.

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I feel like I spend adulthood alternating between trying to recreate the magical Christmas memories I have alternating with giving up and doing nothing. This year I went all in on décor, and the truth is: I’ve loved it. I didn’t do any real baking though, and I miss my Christmas cookie parties I threw for a few years. Maybe next year I should do more baking, and keep the decorating. I’ve also been listening to Christmas music pretty often, and I did some fun shopping. I used Etsy quite a bit, with mixed results: the products have been wonderful, but I’ve had an issue getting one thing. I think it’ll be sorted out, but not before Monday.

In any case, this has been a good Christmas season so far. It’s been a challenging year in many ways, but it’s been overall a positive year for me. I definitely feel like my social life has been missing, and that’s something I should work on in the future, but overall things have been really good. At least when I try to ignore the direction our country is going and pretend that everything is fine in that sense, which, to be fair, isn’t easy.

(The Jewel Box at Forest Park. We went on a walk this morning with a friend and her dog…which might mean I’m just worrying about things.)

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How do busy people maintain friendships? Or should I not worry about it too much and just do what I can when I can? I have friends to talk to about big issues and I am happy in my romantic relationship. I just don’t really have many friends who invite me to just hang out, or have dinner on a random night, or do something like see a movie, and I suppose a lot of that is because I don’t generally have time to do any of those things…so maybe I just need to relax and accept how life is right now.  I always enjoy hanging out when people when I do, and I have many wonderful colleagues that I chat with when I see them, and maybe that’s enough for now? I’ve never been good at maintaining a large number of friendships at once, probably because I’m not a huge fan of large group activities. Sigh. I’m sure I’m not special in this regard, am I?

One more workday and then two days off! Tomorrow I am playing a variety of Christmas Eve services, and then I fly to Phoenix to spend a few days with family. I’ll be back for the New Year and then will continue to be on vacation for a bit. It’ll be nice to relax.