Category Archives: Cat

Too Many Good Things

We’ve been watching Manifest lately, which I don’t recommend, actually. But now we’re sucked in and we want to see how it ends, and it’s taking forever since we’ve only been averaging 5 episodes a week. There’s a saying they keep saying about “all good things” so that’s where I got my title from.

I’ve been doing a lot of things on the weekends, and I’m already worn out! I got asked for this and that, and each time I want to do it for various reasons (enjoy colleagues, good money, love the music director, etc.) and as a result my weekend I just had was really busy. We did have some fun though: dinner out on Friday night and a symphony concert on Saturday night (yes, we are going three weeks in a row). The concert was really nice, and we ran into friends and went out after the show as well, which felt very “before times” (except that we were at a patio, the place was not super crowded and our friends barely made the cutoff for ordering food at a restaurant that used to be really “late-night”friendly.)

Looking out onto a pond from under a tent: last weekend’s wedding location.

But nonetheless, things are going well. The weather is starting to be really nice, not too humid, cooler, etc. I spent this morning digging up a garden bed of irises: we got a new back porch and now one of the flower beds doesn’t make sense anymore. (If you want some irises and are local, let me know.) I’m not sure if I’ll replant some or not, for now they are just spread out on the remnants of a garden bed.

The new stairs! Our friend Jim did them and they are gorgeous.

I’ve played a couple weddings and have a few more in October. I have enjoyed playing some things, especially one where I got to improv a bit more (catholic masses are fun for this reason) and I do enjoy focusing on sound quality as I play. I also played the same piece at two funerals, Arvo Part’s Spiegel Im Spiegel, and I found that oddly coincidental, is this piece really hot right now or something?

Kitties!

I guess that’s it for now. How is your week going? Are you slightly less tired that I am?

around the Yard

This is the year I’ve really noticed what flowers are in the backyard. For whatever reason (free weekends, spending the whole year at home due to the pandemic, getting older) I’ve been way more away of flowers and such this year, and it’s been fun watching our plants bloom.

There are a ton of irises in the yard, and I’ve learned that likely I need to divide them all, which seems like a daunting task, but means in a few months I can just get started on it, and learn as I go, which has been my gardening motto. (If anybody reading this wants to come help, let me know!)

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I’m enjoying watching them bloom. How have I missed this the past 6 years? Probably because May was completely full of gigs, but this year, I’m busy busy and making enough $ but not working as much on the weekends.

I hear a lot about the restaurant worker shortage and how it’s caused by the Pandemic Unemployment Insurance, but I wonder how many folks are just done working weekends? I guess we’ll see what happens. I am not done working them, but I’m done working so many of them.

The big news this week is that Louie built a small “catio” in the back. He took the window in his office, which previously had no screen and therefore could only be opened a few inches, and built it out so the cats can enjoy fresh air.

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Since these pictures were taken he added a little more soft padding for them to sit on. They love the catio and have spent hours each day there.

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My peas are growing well and will likely soon be at the tops of the poles. The poles are likely too short so then they will grow back down or around, or we’ll see.

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I’m planning to plant beans this weekend. I might plant them this afternoon because the weekend looks rainy, so I could just get them in the ground. I have to a do a little weeding first. I may also plant a row of beets. I’m thinking a row of beets, a row of beans, and then in another two weeks, another row of beans, and maybe another two weeks after that, or something. I also have some mixed lettuce and swiss chard coming up, not pictured.

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These are growing in the back, amongst the irises (I think), raspberries, and probably some sort of weed that needs to be pulled. There are still pretty wild parts of the yard, and the back corner has raspberry plants interspersed with ivy which is a little bit of an issue, I think. Perhaps less of an issue that the honeysuckle tree next to the garage though, but not everything can be fixed at once!

I had leftover blueberries in the freezer still, from last summer, so I made the second blueberry rhubarb crisp of the season. It was delicious. I recommend Talenti Madagascar Vanilla Bean Gelato for a topping. And I like to call it “blubarb crisp.”

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Workwise: I started teaching at home two weeks ago and it’s going well. I have 3 to 4 students coming in person on most days, and otherwise I’m still online, and it’s going just fine. It’s wonderful to see the students and really hear them, and it reminds me how to teach in person (play with them, duets, clapping in time, interrupting right away because they’ll hear you in time, all of that) and then I go right back online and have to do that, so it’s been a great mental challenge, doing both. I have 22 students playing on the recital in a few weeks, so we are preparing for the performance. It will hopefully still be done in an hour or less. I also am switching to a set monthly tuition starting in August and I told everybody this at the beginning of May. I think it’ll work out really well, and will help my budget as well as I can have a more regular idea of what to expect each month.

Anyway, Louie is off on a short weekend trip to visit his dad, so I’d better help him get on the way. I’m not sure the cats will survive without him since they are so used to us both being around all the time.

The Prodigal Cat Returns

What a week it has been. I’d say bad, except for some good news did happen!

Backing up a bit, so with all the Covid-19 stuff, Louie and I thought long and hard about taking our trip to Atlanta, but we decided to go for it: we were driving, and we were mostly just going to visit our friends April and Charlie, so we figured we weren’t interacting with huge numbers of people nor would we be at the whims of the airport. I packed a few extra items in the car in case of emergencies (little did I know that toilet paper would become an emergency and I would have brought more to leave with April) and we set off.

We had a great time in Atlanta. I might share more later, but that already feels too long ago.

Our last night in town, I got a call which left a voicemail. I started listening to it, and froze. It was a place calling to tell me they had my cat, Miles. THEY HAD MILES.

They had actually had him since October but for whatever reason, hadn’t run his microchip. When they finally did, Saturday evening, they found us. We told them we would be there as soon as we could.

We left Atlanta very early Sunday in order to get to the shelter before it closed.

And then we took him home. He’s been missing since April 20 of last year. Oh, and before being in the shelter, he was visiting the porch of a woman who lives in our neighborhood, about 5-6 blocks away. I even interacted with her on nextdoor, but didn’t know it was him (she said he was unneutered, and he is neutered, and I didn’t get back in touch with her due to a variety of reasons, one being I was in touch with so many people about black cats, and I also guess I figured she would run his chip at some point since that was mentioned in the thread…oh well!) But most important, he seemed well fed and happy, and the people at the shelter seemed very nice and loved cats.

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Today is day two of online teaching from home. How quickly our lives change and yet already seem normal. This is the amazing part of being human, is that we adapt so quickly. We are struggling to figure out how to deal with life as it is now, with social distancing (who even knew this word 7 to 10 days ago?), working from home (thank goodness for the internet and video chat, right??) and spending far more time together and less time with other people. It looks like I wasn’t insane two weeks ago to stock up on food and such, though there isn’t actually a food shortage, it sort of feels like it.

I went to Schnucks (our local grocery store) yesterday afternoon for a few items (milk, notably) and it was shocking. Empty shelves everywhere, though there was still plenty of food, if you were willing to be flexible. No bananas, but still apples and pears. They were out of a lot of pastas but not all, and the same with breads. They did have a ton of green cabbage, 29 cents per head, and I just couldn’t imagine making cabbage right then. That’s how you know it isn’t really a food shortage…if there were we’d also be buying the cabbage.

I did get milk, though not my preferred brand, and a few other items. I think mostly we will just be cooking at home more and not having to pack lunches either, so our cooking styles will change over the next few weeks/months. I’ll have more time too as I’m only teaching and don’t have any extra gigs. We’ll see how much I miss them! Right now, I’m not feeling like playing the violin because I’m a little bummed about all that’s going on.

In any case, this is a wonderful time to be home with Miles and Muriel, and watching them interact and get used to each other again. Do they remember? No idea. Does Miles remember us? Again, no idea, but he seems to be settling in well and doing some of the same things he used to do, but that could just be instinct. (Likes the same toys, hiding in the same bathroom drawer, etc.)

How are you coping? Are you working from home (are you lucky enough to be able to?) Are you struggling and hoping relief comes your way (we will need cash in people’s hands soon)? Are you just going on, life as normal?

This is my Jam

Ah, Sunday night. We want to just relax before the busy week ahead but instead it always gets a little depressing. I never know quite whether I’m looking forward to my work because yay I’m a musician and I’m doing what I love, or really just dreading it all and I should throw in the towel and total change careers…bird inspector, perhaps?

But after a fun weekend interspersed with a lot of work, I’m not quite ready to move on and make tomorrow Monday yet.

(Just to let you know, I decided I used to be funnier here on the blog because I wrote more from the heart and didn’t worry about sounding stupid. So I’m trying to be more detailed in this blog entry. Enjoy!)

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Friday night was opening night of Donizetti’s La Fille du Regiment with Winter Opera. I’m the concertmaster for the group (over ten years, can you believe how time flies by?) and after a long week with several long rehearsals, it was great to finally open the show. With Winter Opera though, we only do two shows (maybe someday it’ll be more?) so really, we open, and then we close the show. We closed this afternoon.

Saturday I had a day off, and I had big plans. Somehow I had gotten into my head that I wanted to learn to can jam. I think this started because I had leftover cranberries in my freezer, and I’d bought some cranberry jam to eat for Christmas, and loved it. Anyway, one thing led to another, and I started researching how to make jam, bought a few things (jars, lids, jar lifter, funnel) and boom! Saturday I made jam. I used this recipe for cranberry orange jam and it turned out great! I have four half pint jars on the shelves now, and I don’t know if we’ll just eat them or what. The other thing I did was use my bread maker to make an awesome loaf of white bread…which is great with jam. I’d been looking at the breadmaker for awhile, telling myself I should either use it or get rid of it, and on Tuesday I tried to use it. Well, I did use it, except I realized after I started putting the recipe together that I had the wrong kind of yeast. The bread turned out…okay…but not great. (I did some improvising to try to make it work.) In any case, yesterday I followed the recipe exactly and it turned out great, except maybe too big! It rose so high it got squished down on top!

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So then I got carried ahead (I am prone to do this) and have plans to make another jam soon (it’s apple based) and then ended up finally biting the bullet on an idea I’d been kicking around for awhile: I joined a CSA. We will do every other week pick-ups (I’m trying Local Farmer Crop Boxes, and I know it’s winter and not the best time of year, but it will only get better, and I figure they wouldn’t offer the box if they didn’t have stuff to give you, and the website shows some foods I want to eat—potatoes and mushrooms and other stuff) and I think it’ll push me to try new veggies and such. I also want to do a few more canning things over the summer, some pickles, maybe salsa, maybe who knows, and we never seem to make it to farmer’s markets due to our schedules, so a CSA is like buying a ticket—I HAVE to pick up the box (and I picked a time that will work) or else I’ve wasted my money. 

In any case, canning doesn’t seem so hard after all! I have memories of being a kid and using this big metal thing with holes on the sides and a giant wooden stick to smoosh the tomatoes down, and we made homemade tomato sauce and pickles. Mom, do you remember those? Did we can using a water bath? (I guess I can ask you over the phone, but maybe you’re reading this first.) Suzanne, Louie’s partner before me, also canned, and I feel only a little bit weird doing it because of that (I’m not sure I’ve ever said this on the blog, but she died of cancer before I met Louie, but I’m sure she was a really cool person, especially since I’ve met her mom and sisters.) I also think I’ve probably given away a few mason jars over the years in my decluttering, but here we are…you can’t NOT give things away because you might use them 5 years later, unless you absolutely know you will! They aren’t so expensive in any case, but this is a thing, isn’t it, you think, oh why did I give that away 5 years ago, I wish I still had it. But then you would have had it taking up space, collecting dust, for 5 years, and who knows if you ever really even had the right thing. I guess the real solution is to never buy anything either?

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In any case…I felt really accomplished with those little jars. Very instagram worthy, really, but the truth is also: the jam is delicious! Or at least the small amount I tried (I had to taste it, of course, plus a little didn’t fit into the jars) was. I know you’re seeing me do a lot of random stuff here: I am still cross-stitching, of course, but not so much this week because I’ve been busy with the opera (well, and making my jam) and also because my right pinky was hurting and I think maybe too much stitching was exacerbating the problem. I am working on finishing a project for Louie for Valentine’s Day and that’s why I haven’t shared any pictures: it’s a surprise for him. And besides, I have time for many hobbies Winking smile

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Okay, so after all the canning success (I wasn’t sure it was a success until today when I checked the seals and YES they definitely all sealed) Louie and I met some friends at Little Fox for a great dinner because going to Jazz at the Bistro for a show with Delvon Lamarr’s Organ Trio.  The food was great: grilled trout, chicory salad, wild mushrooms, Straccitella, and for dessert, a piece of Olive Oil Cake. The show was also great—the trio had organ, guitar, and drums, and we stayed for both sets. We have a “pick your own” subscription from Jazz at the Bistro, and together with the other couple, we have to choose at least 4 shows per season—you get a valet parking pass (for free!) and 10 percent off ticket prices with the subscription. This season we chose 6 shows, I believe. We go to the 7:30 on Saturday show, but then if tickets are available for the 9:30 show you can see it for no additional cost, so we usually do.

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It was a late night, only because I had an early wake up this morning for a church service. I was playing at Ladue Chapel, and I love the music director there, so it was fun. It was a tiring morning though, with a short rehearsal and two church services, and then I had to play the opera, so as you can imagine, I’m pretty tired right now.

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This week is a little stressful, only because I agreed to play a viola job on Thursday morning. I am not as comfortable (this is an obvious understatement) playing the viola, so I’ve been practicing the part a bit. I also had to reschedule a few students—I might not ordinarily have agreed to do a gig at this time, but a colleague needed help, plus this was one I really did want to play. I’m waiting to hear from a few students, which means I don’t exactly know what my week is like, and you know that makes me feel a little more stressed out. I will likely get it all sorted and scheduled by the end of the day tomorrow.

Anyway, after I finish this blog post and Louie stops working, we are going to continue watching The Man in the High Castle. Tomorrow is Monday, as I’ve mentioned, but this semester Monday’s aren’t as busy. I teach at Lindenwood University on Mondays, and in the fall I was there from 9:15 to 4:30 or so…and this semester it’s only noon to 4:30, which means I have the morning to exercise and practice. (I have more students at Washington University, so money wise it’s totally fine.). After that, I drive home and teach private students until 8:30. That’s my Monday…very glamorous! I am playing viola with my ensemble at LU this semester, I believe—I’d hoped to have a viola player but things didn’t work out, but I really want to have the string quarter anyway, so I will join them. It’ll be a lot of fun! (I enjoy viola playing, but don’t feel confident sight-reading, and worry about being in tune up in higher positions. I know you want to make a viola joke there, but I’m baring my soul here, people.)

Any canning hints/advice? How do you think I got the cat in the box on top of the fridge?

Winter is Here

We had our first snowstorm of the year. It coincided with my weekly trip to St Charles to teach, so that meant my drive home afterwards was long and harrowing since the Missouri Department of Transportation has no idea how to deal with snow and ice. Once I got back on St Louis City streets, they were completely clear, which meant that the whole trip could have been easy and pleasant, but no, there’s just no way, evidently. I’m only a little annoyed that my 45 minute commute turned into 1 hour 45, and that I almost missed a student. I lose money on snow days, which I don’t mind once or twice as it’s nice to get a surprise holiday, BUT if it’s going to happen a lot, then I need somebody to figure out the road situation.

But otherwise, the week is going quite well. My home students are getting ready for a recital next weekend, my college students are looking forward to the end of the semester and are therefore completely swamped with work (which they often use as an excuse for not practicing, as if I will appreciate that they care less about my class than the others). Louie and I finally finished watching The Handmaid’s Tale (I may have mentioned that already) and started Outlander the other night. I’ve read all the Outlander books and so I’m hoping Louie likes the show well enough. We put on English subtitles as the Scottish accents are pretty heavy and that helps a lot!

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Oh, and I finished my Thanksgiving cross-stitch project! I wasn’t sure if I would, but then I had a lot of free hours when students canceled so I got some more stitching in, and once I was close, it seemed to go by quicker.

I got to see my friend April over the weekend—she and her boyfriend were in town for a wedding. We had a nice brunch together and caught up a teeny bit…it’s never enough time! I regret that I haven’t had time to take a weekend and go visit her recently. I’ll have to work on that. (I do work too hard). The rest of the weekend was weddings and opera…this weekend is a wedding, rehearsal and concert for a small orchestra concert, and some makeup lessons. It’s a busy time of year for musicians—not even counting the upcoming holiday gigs and concerts, there are tons of regular concerts and then rescheduling lessons here and there.

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I’ve been using cross-stitch kits I’ve ordered on Etsy. I wanted to get a handle on how to do things before trying to put stuff together myself (i.e. just use a pattern and get my own cloth and string organized). I have a couple of Christmas themed ones to do next,  and I also ordered two really cool ones from the place I got the turkey to work on afterwards: one with a scene from Yellowstone National Park, and one from Glacier NP, which is just kind of crazy. I’m not entirely sure what I’ll do with all these things afterwards, but the truth is that I’ve been a bit happier this semester with my crafting, so I’ll keep at it.

The ice on the roads has stymied my runs this week. I don’t currently belong to a gym, so there’s no indoor running option…there are indoor workout options of course, but I can’t run around the house. I hope after today gets into the 40’s the sidewalks will be better, so I think I’ll make up today’s planned run on Friday morning. Louie and I are running another 5K two weekends from now…hopefully it isn’t icy then. I know running regularly has also been helping my happiness, along with allowing myself time to read. I remind myself that I’m living my life, right now, and I should do the things I enjoy Smile

Life keeps going

We are still looking for Miles. We still have signs up, and we may put out more fliers by the weekend. At this point, we just have to assume that either he’s coming home or not, and it might just be up to him. But I want to make sure everybody around knows he’s still missing in case they see him, or if they think he’s a stray and can take him in so that they would know he’s ours. I haven’t heard any bad news, so…

I was very sad for days, but I’m moving forward. I still hope he comes back, and if he does you will hear about it, and the whole world will, because I will be so happy, but honestly, I’m not counting on that. I’ve grieved his loss. I’ve cried many tears (including a bit right now) but I just don’t know. Whatever happens, we’ll see. We’ll welcome him back so gladly, but Muriel is thankfully doing okay without him, and life goes on. This household deals with a lot of things happening and keeps on, and that’s just what we do.

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Loss is just a part of life, and a part of being a pet owner as well. And it really sucks. When this first happened, I had a breakdown one night, because I just felt so strongly all the pet losses I’d had over the past few years and I thought I had longer before the next one. But you know, that’s how things go. You can’t bring a cat into your life, a little delightful furry creature, and expect it to last forever.

Who knows though. Somebody’s eating the food—maybe it’s the raccoon, maybe not. We’ve had a few potential sightings, but who knows with black cats (and our neighbor on one side has an indoor/outdoor black cat, and not everybody knows that and can tell the difference). So we’ll keep up with the posters. One of my adult students yesterday was telling me that she’s had loads of indoor/outdoor cats and sometimes they disappear for a  long time, and then they come back. Maybe Miles is loving the outdoors right now, and the lovely temperatures and the birds. I hope he’s not scared and lost.

Anyway! This was supposed to be a relaxing last week of finishing up college classes and lessons. Instead it ended up being pretty well scheduled, with the added cat missing stress and a bit more rain than we’d wanted. I’m still trying to schedule one more student lesson, and then after Monday all that’s left are a few grades and BOOM done for the semester. It’ll be officially summer, or summer enough. The kind of fun thing about college teaching is that you mostly finish in the beginning of May, but then you get one more paycheck! (On a less fun note, I mostly funnel the majority of my college teaching into my retirement savings…though I enjoy watching balances grow and the idea that someday I will be off such a busy schedule.)

The back yard is really growing up after all the sewer work the other month—it’s only been about 5 weeks!

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All the rain we’ve been getting is really helping. And those stairs probably need some work…the back porch is a bit old.

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Cat pun cards from my friend Rose. My students get a real kick out of them!

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I just thought this was pretty weird.

I’m off for a run. Ideally if I go sweat around the neighborhood Miles will smell me and decide to follow me home? I personally wouldn’t do that, but one thing is for sure: I am not a cat.