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Treat Yourself

4 more students and then WOO HOO I’m on vacation for two weeks. Often I say that my vacation is well deserved, but I had so many actual days off over the summer I’m not sure that’s true. Then again, many people have two days off every 7 and still think they deserve vacations…(or maybe they don’t, but you know what, they do!) so…a well-deserved vacation!

I’ve got today off. Louie is out of town over the weekend, so I finished the opera performance last night, then stayed up late finishing a book. (The Visitors by Sally Beauman, which makes me want to visit Egypt and also makes one feel odd about colonialism). I thought I’d sleep in today, and didn’t set an alarm, and woke up at 7:45 am. Which is earlier than I sometimes even get up normally.

Some people tell you that when you have kids you won’t be able to sleep in anymore. I’m here to tell you that it seems to just happen as you age. I used to sleep past 10 am no problem, and sometimes even until noon. I would never wake up before 10 am without an alarm! And now, it’s a struggle to stay asleep past 8, even when I can or even when I need more sleep. The older I get, I realize so many of the things that people tell you about having kids are simply about aging.

But I digress. You know me, I’m preparing for a trip, so I’m reviewing my lists and checking stuff off. This is how I cope. Other things on the docket for today: work out, read as much as possible. I’m taking the day off from violin practice to recover from the opera, and besides, I’m about to go out of town…(arguably one should practice more because of that, but I am not going to make that argument.)

I had a busy week until a few days ago. I had quite a lot of students this week and a couple of interesting gigs, which went really well. On Friday though, I only had a performance at night and a couple of lessons to teach, so I ended up meeting one of my Wash U students for lunch and getting a pedicure. My student is actually no longer my student because she graduated and is headed off to grad school in another city. I had wanted to take her out for lunch in May, but I canceled our appointment back then due to being completely overwhelmed and finally got around to rescheduling. It was great to see her and I know she’s going to do well in grad school. I was going to put a picture of us here but it just keeps being upside down and won’t be correct, so go to instagram if you want to see the picture.

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I also got a pedicure. This is my treat yourself thing to do about once a month (or less, really) in the summer.

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A pit selfie! I played four performances of Nabucco with Union Avenue Opera. It was a very energetic opera, and I really liked the conductor.

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I got the cats a water fountain. Muriel at least seems to like it. I’m not sure if Miles has tried it out yet.

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I’d say Miles is adjusting well to being an indoor kitty.

I feel pretty good about things right now. I’m relaxed, I’m as caught up as I need to be for work. I have mostly accomplished as much as I’m going to accomplish this summer, and I’m okay with that. I’m fairly ready for the fall semester to begin. I’ve got an incredibly busy September because I’m playing a musical show at the Rep and there are 28 performances, plus a week of rehearsals and a few student shows and preview shows too. It should be fun and I’m working with some of my favorite colleagues, but it is going to be a tough month to get through, since we also have a quartet concert and I’ll have my college students starting up. I know I can handle it, but I’m not sure quite how it will work out. So being relaxed now is probably a good thing, because in one month I’ll be really busy.

Another thing I do want to try to do (after September, I think) is try to get more viola playing work. I don’t plan to stop being a violinist ever, but I want to do more with the viola, so I need to work on moving that part of my career forward.

Lots to do! But not right now. Later. After vacation. I just downloaded a bunch of new books onto my kindle (the library is AMAZING) and so I’m going to read and drink coffee now.

One more week

One week left of summer work, then it’s off on a vacation…and then it’s fall. I know it’s not TECHNICALLY fall, but school will have started for the kids, and that means it’s fall. This fall is going to be busy as usual, and I think September is going to be the hardest, so wish me luck.

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Until then! I’m trying to get as many things in place as possible. The good news is we’ve settled on a concrete company for the front stairs. And I’ve finished with all my bank switches. There are a few more things that need to be done around the house, but I think I reached all my first tier goals for the summer. The stretch goals would involve getting a giant tree bush trimmed, but quick internet research tells me that this isn’t a good time of year to trim stuff and that that winter is better. I should also research to see what the difference between a tree and a bush is, because if I’m going to find somebody to come out to work on this monstrosity I should be able to describe it. It is a living creature that has taken over the entire space between my house and the driveway, and is probably 20 feet tall and as wide. I don’t even know. Louie used to be able to trim it but he got behind and now it’s becoming a monster. Home ownership is NO JOKE.

I got off track there, however.

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It’s been an odd week. I have millions of thoughts involving an article from the Washington Post regarding my teacher from graduate school. The #metoo movement is powerful, strong, and shows no signs of stopping. I have nothing to report in regards to him, and when I think of things involving my own #metoo stories, he doesn’t really factor in…I also learned so much from him, and I loved studying with him, and I found him very charming and…oh it’s just all so complicated, sad, and awful all around.

One of the things that we are doing on this trip is towing a sailboat down to Georgia. Louie has a sailboat in his possession from a series of complicated events, and we are finally giving it to somebody who will use it more. (Zero is the amount I’ve used it, and he has used it I believe once since I’ve known him). This is exciting, because they say the two happiest days in a boat owner’s life is the day they get the boat and the day they get rid of the boat. Towing a sailboat is no small feat though—I don’t think I’ll be very comfortable driving the truck, but after we get rid of the sailboat then I may need to drive a pickup truck for some period of time. I’ve driven a Uhaul and a 15 passenger van at points in my life, but lately all I’ve been driving are compact cars! The other nice thing about getting rid of the boat is that we’ll have more yard room. We would technically like to start a garden but feel overwhelmed by how to do that (and while, we’d love to HAVE a garden and eat the vegetables and stuff from it, we aren’t sure if we really have the time to dedicate to it.) Do any of you garden? Mom, want to come help organize a garden for us?

My timehop app reminded me that today was the two year anniversary of the time the bear attacked the car in Colorado. If you are a new or occasional reader, you might say WHAT? Read here.

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We’ve had some good summer adventures! We are already looking ahead to next summer, though more in a brainstorming way. I do love planning trips, and I like to think I’m getting better at it. I also like to think I’m getting better at organizing my life and being relaxed and calm, and I’m not sure those things are true, but…life is a work in progress.

I’ve got some fun and interesting stuff happening this week! Over the weekend I was playing Nabucco with Union Avenue Opera and we have two more performances next weekend. In between I’m playing for a mass at St Francis de Sales—it’s something I’ve done before once but is pretty unusual: it’s a mass where new priests are ordained. I’m not Catholic but it’s still a very interesting and unique thing to witness. Then I’m playing a little concert with some colleagues at a retirement home, which is always nice though I’m not always so popular at these places. In between all that I still have 22 students scheduled, so I won’t be lacking things to do.

Last note: who is enjoying this cooler weather in St Louis? I know I am! I wish it would hang around.

4 Nights in Rocky Mountain National Park

At the beginning of June, Louie and I only had a week to travel, but we decided we wanted to get somewhere totally beautiful and different than St Louis. We settled on a return visit to Rocky Mountain National Park, where we’d been twice before but really love the park. The added bonus is that it’s just over a day’s drive away (or technically a really long day’s drive, probably.)

We started on trip on a Monday morning. We had the car loaded up and ready to go for a trip of camping and hiking. The bonus to this trip would be that I was going to celebrate my 40th birthday in the park!

We drove to Kansas City for lunch first—though we both eat a mostly pescatarian diet these days (no meat other than fish) it is our vacation “tradition” to have a barbecue lunch at Arthur Bryant’s in Kansas City. Some people are very strict “no animal products” type of people (and more power to them!) but I also think that as long as I’m only eating meat here and there, I’m still making an big impact. Imagine if everybody only ate a little bit of meat each year rather than so many people eating meat for practically every meal?! (You might say, why is she preaching…I’m not. I’m just telling you how I feel. If you feel uncomfortable about your meat consumption, I’m telling you, you can just simply cut back. You don’t need a label for your diet, even though it will confuse people.)

So! We had a very nice meal at Arthur Bryant’s. When planning the trip, we mentioned this meal to people, and everybody has an opinion about what the hottest BBQ restaurant is. But it’s not about that—this is our tradition. This was our third time in 4 years!

After that, we drove the long drive across Kansas and much of Colorado. We had a reservation at a cheap hotel in Limon, Colorado for the night. To be fair, Kansas and Colorado, though not terribly exciting, have a certain understated beauty. The open sky, the open road, the wind farms…rolling hills making way to flat ground, but the world just opens up, doesn’t it?

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We spent the night at the Rodeway Inn in Limon. It was less than $50 on Priceline, and worth every penny. We ate dinner at a nearby Denny’s, which was perfect.

The next morning we got breakfast in the hotel, and then headed to Denver to meet a friend of Louie’s for lunch. We’d visited Derek a few years before for a little longer, but we just didn’t have the time today. His wife was working, so the three of us walked to a nearby restaurant for lunch—it ended up having to be a different place than he originally chose, but the lunch turned out great! We went to the Mercantile at Union Station, and had a delicious meal.

Aside: as you get close to Denver, you see the mountains. It’s called the front range, and after spending a day driving through the Great Plains, it’s absolutely breathtaking. I always love the first glimpse of the mountains.

After lunch, we headed to Rocky Mountain National Park. We decided to take the scenic route rather than the most direct. Our route took us by Golden Gate Park (where we should probably return to spend time), through Central City (where it seemed the town had added a large number of casinos) and through Nederland which is an adorable town that I kind of want to buy a vacation home in. This took a few hours, but the drive was just gorgeous! The road was winding, which is Louie’s favorite kind of driving (not mine), and we loved it. We stopped in Lily Lake when we got there and walked around the lake. We saw a muskrat (?) and a moose (!) but the moose was lying down and we couldn’t get a really good view.

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After that, we headed to our campsite to check in and get unpacked. I’d reserved a spot for us at the Glacier Basin Campground, site C99. We’d stayed at this campground before and I thought I preferred it to Moraine, so I booked it again. One thing to know about camping in RMNP is that there are no showers or hot water, but otherwise it’s cheap ($20 a night) and there’s soap and air dryers in the bathrooms (and flush toilets!). You have to be really careful about your food and whatnot because of bears (oh, and mountain lions were also mentioned on signs) but otherwise, it’s a really fun time.

I’d considered getting a National Parks Annual Pass just to be supportive, but we ended up just getting a 7 day pass. We don’t have another parks trip planned in the next year so it would have been a donation to do the annual pass (it’s a great deal if you are visiting quite a few parks though, and it’s easier to hang onto than the little paper receipt you have to use for the week!). When we checked into the campsite, the ranger at check-in warned us about bears, told us she’d seen one on her way into work that day, and mentioned that they can smell m & m’s from miles away. The only thing that made me worry was: how did she know we had m & m’s???? I decided she must be a bear.

Our campsite was beautiful, with a great view of the mountains. We had a picnic table, a tent pad, a fire pit, and though we didn’t have our own bear box, there was one at the site right across the road. We were also basically right across the road from the bathrooms—when you have to bear proof your campsite it’s much easier to be closer to the bathrooms. I’d done a fair amount of research online before booking the site (studying campground maps, looking at campsite photos online) and I think from the available ones, I chose well. We planned to stay for 4 nights, so I wanted something as nice as possible.

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The campground was supposedly full but not too busy at this time. We had people near us, but not every site was full (though evidently they were booked…I guess people didn’t make it. That’s too bad though, because it means other people might have been turned away, and there is nothing like camping in the park.)

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We brought our “old favorites” for camping meals—which mostly means canned and boxed food. We had a lovely dinner around the campfire and just relaxed the rest of the evening.

I was rereading some old blog posts to give a friend a few hiking recs and realized that my humor has changed a little. Or maybe not, but I thought my old posts were so funny! I also thought maybe they were more detailed, so I thought I’d elaborate on a few things—

First, meals we like to eat while camping: couscous/white beans/tuna/canned veggies ALL IN ONE BOWL, trader joe’s veggie chili, trader joe’s boxed indian food that you boil in water plus boil in a bag uncle ben’s rice (which isn’t bad at all and is a good way to make rice while camping), and our last one was mac and cheese with added canned tuna and canned veggies. We supplement with some beer, preferably from the area we are in, though on this trip we didn’t bother, and maybe some snacks like cheddar popcorn or something. On this trip I brought a bag of pirate’s booty from St Louis and it exploded in the trunk due to the altitude change (still good though). Other food we eat: oatmeal in the morning is good, filling, and easy (boiling water is an easy way to make food, and it doesn’t create many dishes—remember, we are cleaning up with cold water unless we boil water to wash dishes too), and we do LOTS of peanut butter sandwiches while hiking. Apples travel really well as far as fresh food. I always imagine making salads and such, but it’s just hard to keep track of that sort of thing—you’re putting things in the bear box which gets hot—the cooler keeps things cool but so often they end up getting wet…so canned and boxed food is the best solution to me.)

Other things: We love making fires, so often buy the firewood. The parks mostly sell firewood at the campgrounds and it’s not a bad deal. We often only burn a few logs per night, not the whole bundle. It’s relaxing and fun to have a fire! We cook on a Coleman two burner stove with propane. It’s hard to control the flame too much—mostly you get just high, and then high again, though occasionally medium to low is possible. I don’t have a great method for washing dishes, but we just try not to worry too much. I use campsuds and a sponge and towel, and do my best (usually I end up washing while Louie cleans something else up or starts the fire)—I figure since there’s no raw meat or anything, food safety isn’t terribly concerning for a few days. You get dirty camping! One last detail, before I continue talking about the trip itself: we starting making coffee in a pour over, and it’s WAY better than other options for camping (I love drip coffee, but haven’t found a good way to do that.) Louie set up a way for the pour over to pour into a large thermos, and this trip we finally had good coffee in the morning!

So, continuing on—our first full day in the park!

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The next morning we got up on the early side and decided to go into Estes Park to do a loop hike called the Lumpy Ridge Trail Loop, about 11 miles RT.

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This was an area of the park we hadn’t explored on past visits so we thought it would be nice.

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There were a few things I didn’t plan on: not being so adjusted to the altitude, not being in as good of physical shape as previous visits, and the heat. As far as the altitude, on previous trips we’d already spent several nights in Colorado before visiting the park. I’d been working out consistently again for only about a month before we visited, and the heat…well, it wasn’t super hot, but it was in the 80’s at points during the day. The hike started out nice and easy, but got challenging for me. I also have an issue not drinking enough water even though I’m sipping often—I realized I need to do more than just sip.

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The hike passed through an area that was greatly damaged by a large flood a few years back. The power of water!

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We walked through a beautiful meadow filled with wildflowers. I was so hot and tired at this point—I didn’t take many pictures and instead just was regretting my life choices. But I suppose it was beautiful, and I wish I could have enjoyed it more!

At one point I sat down and cried and told Louie my hat was broken and it didn’t block the sun anymore. I was tired of just going up and up and up…but finally…the top! We made it around to Gem Lake which was gorgeous (and the chipmunks were very aggressive).

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We rested for a bit by the lake and the chipmunks tried to get at our snacks (I was able to keep them at bay, I think) and then we headed down the path back to the car. It was a nice hike, even though I was bitterly tired, and you could see the mountains and the town of Estes Park as you hiked. There was also a toilet near Gem Lake, that was basically an open air vault toilet—just a gate in front of it, not a door or a room.

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This was called Paul Bunyan’s Boot—a natural rock formation!

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A rare picture together!

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On the way back I almost had to turn around as this tree was blocking the path…

Then we made it back to the car, which was at that point, completely covered in a thick yellow pollen. I also got a nasty blister on the side of my heel because I got something in my hiking boot and didn’t have the energy to get it out…stupid of me. (The blister is still healing as we speak!)

Anyway, after that hike, we (especially me) were exhausted, so we headed back to the campsite to relax and get cleaned up a bit. (No showers, but one can use various types of wet wipes and a change of clothes is a must!). Again, we relaxed, read, chatted, had dinner, a campfire, etc. Our neighbors changed, and this night we had a young college age couple who were at the beginning of a six week road trip across the west across from us, sharing the bear box. We also had a group of people who annoyed me by listening to music loudly (huge pet peeve in a national park campground) and by collecting firewood even though it was expressly prohibited. Downed firewood may seem like it’s fine to use, but in certain ecosystems that wood is very important to the life of the forest, and again, you have to think, if everybody did this would it be okay? And the answer is no. (As far as my music pet peeve—why are you in nature if you need so much background music? Can’t you have any silence?)

I sounds grumpy Winking smile 

Anyway, the next morning was my birthday! I celebrated by sleeping in a bit, and then we took the shuttle up to the Bear Lake Trailhead. We’d decided to do an easier hike today, and chose to hike to Mills Lake, just over 5 miles RT. We’d been to Mills Lake before as part of a longer hike and remembered that we were awestruck by how beautiful it was, so that seemed like a nice day. We packed lunch and planned to spend some time relaxing at the lake as well.

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Bear Lake.

The line for the shuttle was pretty long (this was around 10:30 to 11 am) but we finally got onboard and rode up to the Bear Lake Trailhead. We decided to hike around Bear Lake first since we had never actually done that (at least we thought we didn’t, but I re-read an old post, and we did!) and we did see some snow on the ground! When I’d first started planning this trip I’d thought we might be more limited by snow since this was pretty early in the season to visit, but they had less snow than usual, so we didn’t have any problems.

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Anyway, we headed up the trail to Alberta Falls, and then continued on to Mills Lake. Alberta Falls was the least crowded we had ever seen it, and we stopped for loads of pictures along the way. It was another hot and sunny day, and I was glad to be wearing shorts and a short sleeve shirt. The sun was relentless at times.

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The hike was absolutely gorgeous the whole way.

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I liked the “small” boulder balanced on top of the hill here.

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Snow!

And then our first glimpse of Mills Lake.

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When we made it to Mills Lake we walked a little farther and then found a really nice place to sit down and relax.

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This was my view. On my 40th birthday I got to relax with this view. Not too shabby!

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I don’t know how long we stayed there just enjoying the view and relaxing, but it was longer than we usually sit during a hike! Then we hiked back down, and spent the rest of the night chilling out at the campsite.

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Our vacation was less action packed than some. Part of that was by design, and part was because I just ended up feeling really exhausted! One of my goals for the summer has been to really get back into shape—I’ve let that slide and focused on other things, but I think that being in better shape will help me manage my stress levels. I also have been working too hard, and I’m not sure the level is sustainable. Louie is in a similar boat, at least with working too hard, though he’s in fine shape…in any case, relaxing at the campsite was nice and I figure that’s part of what a vacation is for. It’s not like we weren’t enjoying the view! And this campground does get animals coming through it as well—deer and some small animals too.

The next morning we had to go to Estes Park very early, as I’d booked us on a downhill bike ride with New Venture Cycling again. We’d done a tour about three summers ago and I loved it, so this was my birthday treat. We had hoped to do the Old Falls River Road instead, but it wasn’t open to cyclists while we were visiting, so we did the Trail Ridge Road again. Last time I was quite nervous beforehand, but this time I was just excited! I’d also been doing more biking generally so I felt more experiences and ready for the trip. Basically, they drive to the top of the Trail Ridge Road, and we bike down it, stopping along the way to take breaks, catch our breath (not needed so much as it’s mostly downhill) and you learn quite a lot from the tour guide along the way. We were in a group of about 8 and we had a great time!

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More snow!

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Our guides were Brandon (from before) and a new guy named Seth who was great. They were both really nice, very informative and interesting, and the tour was amazing and so much fun. It was obviously cold when we started out, but warmed up by the end.

After the ride, we went to Dad’s Maytag Laundry and Showers for, well, showers. And then to Ed’s Cantina in Estes Park for a yummy lunch. I was pretty sore at this point in my legs, and hot and tired, and had blisters and whatnot, so I wanted to just sit around and relax. Louie was feeling a little stir-crazy, so he went for a short hike. The next morning we were to leave, so we were a little sad about that as well—a week just isn’t long enough, is it?

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We made our last dinner then, and last campfire.

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The next morning, Louie decided to go hike to Bierstadt Lake. I wasn’t up for it, so I walked over to Sprague Lake, which he had done the night before (it’s a direct trail from the campground, actually!) and then I sat facing the mountains and read a book until he returned.

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You can see our green tent on the bottom right corner.

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Then…sadly…we packed everything up and drove away. It’s worth mentioning that we left the park around 11 am on a Saturday and the line to get into the park was possibly 1/2 mile long. It went on and on, around curve after curve. If you are visiting and not staying in the park, get there early or later in the afternoon or you will be a line for a long time.

We didn’t take the scenic route this time—just the most direct route home. We didn’t know how far we’d get in one day, but we hoped to make it to close to Kansas City. We ended up driving to Lawrence and stopped there (and had dinner at a Cracker Barrel  before we stopped) and then drove the rest of the way in the morning the next day.

So there you have it! One really long blog post to cover a trip that was really all about one destination. Some of you may never go, some of you might think we are crazy to camp there, but I’ll tell you, once you have camping gear, you save so much money camping, and you get to experience the great outdoors—and the VIEWS!!

And then you get home to your bed, and the hot water, and the easy access to showers and the toilet, and you really feel like you are lucky, and you don’t take nearly as many things for granted.

If you have any questions about Rocky Mountain National Park, don’t hesitate to ask! I’m not an expert by any means, but since this was our third trip (but hopefully not last, I still have a dozen hikes I want to do!) I might be able to help.

Camping at Babler State Park

Since today was my first day off from college teaching, Louie and I decided to take a short trip to celebrate. Since we try to make life so much harder than it needs to be, we made a reservation to camp at Babler State Park, which is about 40 minutes away. We wanted to take the dog, Mackenzie, along, since she is getting older and we thought she’d enjoy being outdoors and camping, and also having us to herself (away from Muriel the new cat.) We almost canceled the trip after we realized Muriel had a little bit of recovery to do after her spay surgery, and then when the weather looked iffy, but we decided all would be well.

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The other reason I wanted to get out for a night of camping, besides relaxing and getting outside before it gets toooooo hot, was to check on our gear situation before taking a longer trip this summer. It’s easy to forget what problems occurred, so I thought we’d have this trip to remind us of what we needed. Basically we are in good shape, but there are always a few things here and there to make life easier.

My years of camping experience have taught me how to interpret a campground map as best as possible to figure out what site to reserve in order to best meet our needs. Since we tent camp, we want privacy and shade, or at least as much of each as possible. I’m diligent in my searches, looking online for exact site numbers, looking for pictures of the site, comparing the availability, seeing which sites are MORE popular, and therefore likely better. Since this was only night, I wasn’t too concerned, but I’m pretty sure I got the best site in the campground, or at least one of the best. The only drawback was that it was very far from the restrooms, but it was very close to water, had lovely shade, privacy on three sides and was below the road a bit too, so I’d say we did well. Site 68 at Babler State Park, if you are keeping track.

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You know I love taking pictures of my tent in various locations.

Let me back up just a little, since you know I hate to stay on topic too much. Since I’m done with my college teaching for the semester (15 more hours a week, I believe) I’ve already forgotten how hard it was. This happens immediately—as soon as I have a relaxing evening or afternoon I tend to forget how awfully stressed out I was. This is a good sign, I think, but looking back a few weeks, Louie was saying he wished we could get out and about more, that we used to do a lot more outdoor activities. So we planned a trip—we figured even though I’m going into a few busy weeks (playing a two week run of a musical) we’d take a day and do something fun. I realized we could get away overnight and the plan was hatched!

I ended up of course teaching in the morning before we left and then of course had to get back to teach today, but nonetheless we were able to get away. Packing the car for camping is no small feat (and unpacking) but luckily some of our systems were in place and most of the gear was in one box and ready to go. We did forget a few things but nothing we couldn’t live without.

We got to the campground around 4 pm and check in was easy. We bought firewood there, and then set up the tent and the campsite. It was a little sloped and we weren’t exactly sure the best place for the tent, but overall it was lovely. We were at the end of the road on a cul-de-sac, and while we did end up with neighbors across, it was still pretty private.

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After we set up, we wanted to take a short hike. I’ve been having a little knee trouble, and Mackenzie doesn’t like walking too much so we picked a short hike—Steve Henry from 60 Hikes within 60 Miles of St Louis said it was his favorite though, so we were okay with our choice. We went on the Hawthorne Trail, which was about 1 1/4 miles.

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After the hike we headed back to our campsite and relaxed a bit before dinner. I’d brought Trader Joe’s vegetarian chili for dinner and popcorn for dessert…we made a campfire (well, Louie did) and relaxed a bit first.

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Mackenzie couldn’t figure out how to get comfortable (not much grass on our site—they’d put down a lot of straw to cover the dirt, but we didn’t think of that) so she kept pacing around, giving us these looks like, are we heading home soon?, and finally ended up napping in the backseat of the car. Then the storms started. We couldn’t relax because it kept raining off and on, off and on. It wasn’t anything terrible, just the edge of a storm or two that was passing through, but Louie and I kept going into the car, then back out by the fire, and the car, the fire, etc. Finally we realized we might as well just make dinner—we could always hold an umbrella over the stove if needed, so we did that. The rain held off long enough to make the soup, and then started up again. Finally it seemed to be a long enough time without rain and we were able to enjoy the campfire. Fascinating story, right? But the moral of the story is: always be ready for rain. It will likely rain.

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This is the other view of the campsite.

Anyway, we finally decided to just go to bed. Note for those camping with an older dog: make sure the pad you brought for her is working. We brought an older inflatable pad for her to sleep on, but it wouldn’t hold air. She was antsy all night until finally she squeezed at the foot of the tent on the thermarest and sleeping bag combo and then she was comfy! Other note for those camping or hiking: it’s definitely already tick season…

Oh, and another thing: camping so close to St Louis, it never really got dark. We kept expecting it to get darker, but it never got totally dark. And before we went to bed for the night, we did hear something bigger in the forest, moving around, but didn’t see anything. So that was a little fun and exciting!

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Anyway, we slept well enough, and then got up around 8:30 am. The weather was nice—not too hot, not raining anymore, and we made coffee and oatmeal, and then packed up. We thought about trying to do another short hike, but I think we overestimated what Mackenzie was up for, so we thought maybe she’d better just get home…so we drove home, unloaded the car, and then got back into the workweek. It was a nice diversion and quick overnight trip.

Since there weren’t any photos of me in this post, let me include one from last week after I got my hair done–

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That’s totally how I looked while camping as well.

New York, New York

It’s been a rainy few weeks since we returned from New York, but I’d like to share the highlights of the trip with you.

Louie and I decided to take a spring break trip to New York City. Taking a spring break required a bit of finagling on my part, but I was ready for it: as I mention here quite a bit, I rarely have days off on the weekend or any time, so taking a 7 day trip really just means that I’m finally getting to take some weekends. Sometimes people exclaim over this sort of thing, and frankly, I’m tired of it. And honestly, I’m lucky in that I am able to take some vacations. I work hard, I save, and I deserve it Smile And other than getting sick upon my return, taking breaks really does make me a better teacher and musician.

Okay! So as the trip planning came about, we ended up with three segments of our trip. The first segment would be two days staying with Louie’s aunt and uncle in New York City, then two days with Louie’s dad in Philadelphia, then back to NYC to stay with my sister Carrie for two days. Quite a bit of back and forth, but it made sense when we planned it out.

I bought a new little suitcase for my travels. How cute is this guy?

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We flew out on a Sunday morning and got to NY in the afternoon. When you fly into New York, you can really appreciate how populated the area in. Most airports, you’ll have wide open spaces, and then enter the city, and then land. In this case, it’s houses and roads and buildings for miles and miles leading up to it.

We got a cab to Louie’s uncle’s apartment, and enjoyed the ride in. It takes a little while to get used to the pace of everything in New York City. It’s fast, the cars drive quickly, close together, change lanes a lot, and you just have to get used to it, I think. People walk faster too, and people walk much more (which is definitely good.) Louie’s uncle’s apartment was near Washington Square Park and NYU in a really few neighborhood. I’d never met these relatives of his before, so that was great, and they were of course, really nice. Another aunt and uncle came over and we all went to a place in Brooklyn for dinner called Roberta’s. It’s normally not a place that takes reservations but his aunt was able to finagle a reservation, so we got to snootily walk past everybody and avoid the line. The food was fantastic, even though I got given a hard time for trying to avoid meat…sigh. I’m sure it was all in good fun, though.

I didn’t take as many pictures during the first part of the trip, so I apologize. There are several reasons for that, ranging from “too cold” to “didn’t seem cool taking pictures”.  But I took a few!

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Our first full day in the city we slept in a bit—I wanted to get up and explore, but I was just so tired. As you know if you’ve been reading my blog, I’ve been pushing myself perhaps a bit too much, and once I hit vacation it was like I hit a wall. But we got up and had lovely cappucinos and pastries around the corner from Louie’s uncle’s place, and then we decided to walk down to the World Trade Center area.

I hadn’t been since before 9/11 so it was nice to see the memorial. Well, not nice exactly, but meaningful, and heartfelt, and sad.

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We ate at Eatery (I forgot until we were sitting down the whole sexual harassment thing about Mario Batali, grr it’s hard to keep track!) and then headed back up. We didn’t do terribly exciting things, but it was nice to walk and feel the energy of the city around you. You can just walk and walk!

We met up again with the uncles and aunts for dinner and went to a chinese restaurant on the edge of Chinatown. I don’t recall the name, but it was very delicious. I should also add that we were using the subway fairly proficiently at this point, had a pass to keep adding money too, and generally found google maps useful.

Anyway, the next morning we again slept in, even though again we truly intended to get up earlier. It’s hard to balance vacation as a break and as an activity, isn’t it? I think since we were staying at a relative’s house we didn’t feel the desperate urge to see it all: New York is great, but fairly accessible.

Anyway, we decided to visit the Tenement Museum.

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The tour was really interesting, though I had almost more questions after the fact. I highly recommend checking the museum out. It was another rainy day and we were cold, but still enjoyed walking around. We found a little place that served giant tacos (with tofu and chickpeas and all sorts of tasty things) and had a late lunch there, and then meandered back to the apartment. We had to pack up and meet for dinner.

The next step in our vacation was to meet Louie’s dad for dinner at a Greek restaurant near Carnegie Hall and then go see the Philadelphia Orchestra play at Carnegie. As it turned out, the week we chose to visit NYC, the Philly orchestra was playing in Carnegie, so we got to see Louie’s dad play! We also met up with Louie’s brother Eric, who works at Carnegie, and had a great dinner, then went to the show. Our seats were VERY high up and a bit obstructed view, but the sound was fantastic. I’d heard the Philadelphia Orchestra many years ago (while in college) and was very impressed.

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I thought the string sound was so lush and vibrant in particular. Afterwards we got to be orchestra groupies and met the bus to take us to the train station, where the orchestra had a private train taking them back to Philly. We got to Penn Station, walked straight onto the train, and then left!

Next stop: Philadelphia! We had a nice train ride with Louie’s dad and chatted with some other people as well, some who Louie had known as a young boy. We split some snacks and a bottle of wine—the perks of a private train (I felt like the queen of england!).

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We got in very late, and we were staying at the Doubletree Hotel in Center City. We wouldn’t get much sleep, because the next morning we had plans to meet my brother Jesse, who lives just outside of Philadelphia.

We met up with Jesse, and got some coffee and pastries first. Then we decided to walk around, and go to the Betsy Ross House.

The Betsy Ross House is a long standing family tradition. Back when I was in high school my Uncle Ed started a postcard campaign about the House to garner excitement about an upcoming trip. He sent at least a half dozen cards, each one expressing the amazing-ness that was the BR House and counting down the days until we visited. We went to Philadelphia for the day as a family, and at the end of the day we visited it. It was of course, the highlight of the trip.

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Once we got there we had to take a few pictures as well, to share with family!

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Jesse and I outside the house.

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Betsy’s gravesite.

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Louie and I.

We decided to take the tour, so we headed in. We were lucky in that the house was nearly empty of guests—we were told that normally there would be lots of schoolchildren visiting!

One mildly creepy thing was that there was an actual person dressed as and acting like Betsy. A tour guide referred to them as “the Betsy’s” and once we got to the room with the actual Betsy, it got weird. She talked to us as if she really was Betsy, but I wanted to say, look, lady, it’s just the four of us, and we are all adults here, but I’m not totally convinced she didn’t know she wasn’t Betsy Ross!

In any case, as much as the idea of the Betsy Ross House is a bit of a family joke, we enjoyed it and learned a bit. Even if Betsy didn’t make the original flag (it’s unclear) she was a saavy businesswoman at a time few women owned businesses.

Then we all met up with Louie’s dad and wife for lunch. We had delicious seafood, and then walked my brother to the train station—he had to get back to work.

We spent the rest of the afternoon drinking coffee and just hanging out. Louie and I were finding that we had spent a good deal of the week just being exhausted! We met up with his dad again for a wonderful dinner at a place called Vedge.

The next morning we left the hotel and went to the train station for our train back to NYC. Next stop, the upper limits of Manhattan!

It turned out that my sister Carrie was playing on a gig the first night we were there. And then it turned out that a violinist was sick, and so I would be playing on the gig! I had to borrow a violin, but otherwise thought it sounded like great fun to play a gig with my sister.

So, we got back to Penn Station around 11 am, and then found a subway to take us north. Another 45 minutes, we got off the subway, and followed the maps to Carrie’s apartment. She lives in Inwood with a roommate, who we also met, and the place is really quite nice! Of course it’s small, but it was pretty modern and honestly more spacious than I’d imagined. We went with her and her boyfriend Daniel to a ramen place called Tampopo, after the movie.

After lunch we headed up to to walk around Fort Tryon Park and visit the Cloisters Museum. It was really neat (and I really understood all those jokes about monks and art, as quite a lot of the stuff was a bit “have you ever seen a cat before?”)

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Louie with a unicorn horn.

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Then it was time to change and take the train to Brooklyn for the gig. We decided to get there early and eat dinner beforehand, so we managed to beat the rush (and luckily avoid the train delays that affected people later in the day). We picked a vegetarian place near where we were playing that ended up being so-so, and also met up with a friend of Louie’s.

Then Carrie and I headed over to Union Hall, where we were playing some music for a comedy variety show. We played some pre show music and then one thing during. The comedians ranged from really funny to kind of okay, but it was a good time and a friendly audience. I particularly loved the comedy of Aparna Nancherla, who was understated and self deprecating, but very polished. We all had a fun time, and even got involved with some audience participation.

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Aparna—she was on a Master of None episode.

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The theme of the variety show was that it was supposed to be the host’s 40th birthday (which they acted like this was something horribly old and crazy…) The event was hosted by a comedian named Jenny Gorelick.

I felt like the whole event was exactly how NY seems like it should be—random events where you run into celebrities!

The next day we did more sightseeing. We headed to the northernmost tip of Manhattan.

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And we saw the place where supposedly the island was purchased from the Native Americans.

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We decided to see a museum, and went to the Smithsonian Museum of Design by Cooper Hewitt, or something like that. It was a long walk to get there, and the wind was not fun. The museum was okay—some aspects were really cool, like this magic pen thing you could hold and use it to work with various exhibits and save stuff to your audience number online, but it didn’t work as well and I’d hoped, and the museum was on the small side. We enjoyed it though, and then went to dinner at another vegetarian restaurant on the East Side called Franchia. It was delicious but we felt really rushed through dinner by our server. I suppose we could have just taken our time, but it just felt like we were rushed to order and then we felt like the whole thing happened too fast and we didn’t really get to peruse the menu as much as we’d hoped!

Anyway, the next morning we went home, and that was uneventful…so that was our NY trip. It was great to see so many family members, to get some nice sightseeing in, and to relax and enjoy some good meals. And as a smaller city girl, it’s always fun when you feel like you are understanding the public transit options! I never use public transit here in St Louis, so I felt very big city riding the subway with my violin. There was a time in my life when I wanted to go to the Juilliard School but I ended up in Cleveland instead. I suppose things might have been different!

New Year, Still Hard to come up with Titles

Happy New Year! I had a wonderful Christmas visiting my family in Phoenix, and then I proceeded to come home and be sick with a terrible cold/flu thing for nearly a week. I suppose I should be glad I was already on vacation because I didn’t have to cancel anything (except a quartet rehearsal) but it wasn’t the way I wanted to spend the week.

That’s okay though. It’s been really cold and being sick gave me an excellent excuse to stay inside, mostly in bed. And it reminded me that we aren’t as in charge as we think, and that health really is the most important thing. I plan to work harder this year on maximizing my health, both physical AND mental. This past year I didn’t eat as well or exercise as much as I could have, and I definitely spent more time being anxious and stressed than was good for me, so I’m going to focus on those things.

I’m getting ready for teaching next week, and doing a few things to prepare for the semester ahead. This spring should be a bit easier than the fall, plus I get to ease in. In the fall I returned from a 2 week vacation and had to work nearly a month straight, with loads of gigs in addition to all my students. This spring semester I don’t have so many gigs right off the bat so I can focus on practicing (lots of fun music to learn!), teaching and scheduling my Wash U students, which is always an adventure. I’m already well into my viola challenge of #100daysofpractice on Instagram, but I’m also hard at work learning some wonderful repertoire for the quartet this semester (we have several fun concerts scheduled) and I’ve found myself involved in piano trio/sonata concert as well, so I’ve got a lot of great performances and chamber music lined up. Orchestrally I’m heading to Illinois for two weeks this spring and playing some things in town, doing an opera, and doing a few broadway shows at the Fox. (Sorry, this post is kind of a brain dump, then again, not sorry, that’s how it always is here!)

So, a few pictures from Christmas:

We did quite a few fun activities in Phoenix. We went to an event at the Desert Botanical Gardens called the Luminarias, where the place was lit up with luminaries and you could wander around listening to various live music groups. I liked the mariachi band best.

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We went to the Museum of Musical Instruments, where I had never been before. It was fascinating, and I’d love to go back with Louie sometime. There was an overwhelming amount of information, but it was really neat to see all the different instruments.

The octobass is VERY large, so I also took a picture of a miniature violin. Nice contrast!

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We had a wonderful time just hanging out, eating good food, opening gifts as well. My niece Athena is in the “stick out your tongue” phase of photo taking, but I thought my parents (especially my dad, who has really perfected that look, as it was present in nearly a dozen photos, where the rest of us ranged from crazed with eyes open too wide/shut to somewhat fairly normal) and sister Leslie looked good in this picture!

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On the last full day of my visit, we took a day trip to Sedona. We hiked a little around Bell Rock, took a tour of the Palatki Heritage Site, and then headed to Jerome for a short visit too. It was a full day, and then afterwards nearly all of us got sick! Traveler’s notes: National Parks passes are useful for visiting Sedona as otherwise you have to pay for a Red Rocks pass for the day. And the Palatki site is only accessible via approximately 7 miles of dirt road, which is fun in a Prius C!

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That’s my aunt Connie on the right, Mom on the left. They are sisters. Oh, and an interesting side effect of wearing a Go St Louis shirt while in Sedona—numerous people from St Louis talked to me. I guess we are a friendly people!

In any case, it was a nice trip, always fun to see my niece especially (she changes the most) and of course great to see family. Louie and I did our separate things with the plan to come back to St Louis and celebrate New Year’s Eve together—we DID do that, but since I was really sick it ended up being lots of tissues, cold medicine, Netflix, and a real struggle to stay up past midnight. I did, but we decided to save the champagne in the fridge until later. (Perhaps today, as Louie is taking the GRE this morning and might want to celebrate after!)

Goals for the new year, just to sort of solidify them. (Then again, saying sort of solidify isn’t very solid.) Be able to roll with the punches. Focus on stress relief and health. Be a good friend, but don’t worry about how many friends I have Smile