Category Archives: Travel

Cars are supposed to be cute, right?

I’ve driven a variety of cars over the years.  Some were based on getting a really good deal, others were based more on appearance and the “cute factor”.  In high school I drove an ’88 Oldsmobile Calais.  I believe I got the car at 180,000 miles and it already barely worked.  It was a car though, and I was 16, and for even more fun, it was a manual transmission which meant that I had to learn quickly how to drive a stick shift.  Since I had just recently learned how to drive, neither me nor my father really wanted to go through the trauma of learning something else together, so he just gave me a crash course in how to drive one (and what I mean by that is, he literally DESCRIBED to me how to drive a stick shift) and then I was on my own.  I never did learn how to start on a hill and I quickly learned the least hilly routes to drive around town to get places.  (This would come in handy as a runner as well, I think.)

(It looked much like this)

After that my next car was a brief lived stint with a Chevrolet Celebrity which had belonged to my grandmother.  I drove this car for a summer and then about a month in Cleveland until it got stolen from near my apartment overnight.  It was recovered, but totaled.  They had taken all of the wheels off among other things.  I had to go pick up a few personal belongings from it at the salvage lot, and I recall it was a rainy day and the lot was very muddy.  My poor car was hard to find because it was on it’s belly in the mud, sinking it.  Literally, the WHEELS were gone.  I do not mean simply tires.

Next my dad found a wonderful Toyota Camry for me to drive.  I got this one in the low 100,000s I believe, and I think I had either just hit 200,000 miles or was about to (I unfortunately can’t recall—if only I’d had a blog then).  This car lasted until a flash flood in Charlotte—I was out of town at a friend’s wedding and had left my car at home.  My cat sitter (another friend) called me afterwards to tell me my car had been submerged in water for several hours.  I called the insurance company to tell them my car had been in a flood, and they asked “is there anyone inside?”  Um, no.  I’d be calling 911.  To be fair…not everybody would.  The sight of my car being towed away with water pouring out of it was a sad sight.

I could keep going—Buick Regal, VW Jetta (another manual transmission which I learned to drive a little bit better than the Calais, and I allude to a strange story about it in this post), and currently I drive a Ford Focus.

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But what sort of car would I want if I could get anything?  I like small cars, and I like good gas mileage.  When I bought the Focus I was into the Focus hatchback and the Toyota Yaris.  The Focus I ended up with was again, a good deal (I am and will probably always be, a used car sort of person).

When I went to Italy in 2001 I was obsessed with the smart car—we saw them everywhere—I loved how tiny they were and how easy to park and maneuver.  I also loved that they seemed to come from car vending machines.

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I didn’t realize that they are owned by Mercedes Benz now.  You can find a smart car dealer here if you aren’t familiar with them—I definitely see more around the US than before but we are such a “big car” country that’s it still pretty unusual.  If I lived in a city and only needed it to get around or perhaps as a second car, I would love one.  I think it would be really handy! (Blog readers, please send me a free car!)

What’s your favorite car?  What do you drive?  Do you know how to drive a manual transmission?

Good eats in Phoenix

Well, since this is a restaurant review blog (oh, what?) I should tell you guys where I ate and drank while on my trip to Phoenix last week. 

I’ll even start with the St Louis Airport.

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I went to the Brewmaster’s Tap Room which is in the Southwest Terminal of Lambert St Louis.  I appreciate that they have actual beers on the menu in addition to Budweiser and Bud Light.  They were out of the 5 day, so I had the Schlafly Pale Ale.

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It’s important to stick your nose in the glass to really absorb the flavors.

Okay, so then I was in Phoenix for dinner.  Leslie, Peter (her husband) and I went to the Windsor for dinner and drinks and general merriment.  It was good.  I had the chicken salad sandwich with roasted vegetables on the side.

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I love roasted cauliflower.  I don’t know why it is so good.

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These were not both mine.

Lunch the next day was at La Condesa, where I’d been before.  It’s a little hole in the wall “Taco Shop” with a really sweet salsa bar.  I got a burrito.

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El Pastor Burro.  It was delicious.

Dinner I went with Sarah to a sushi place called Stingray Sushi.  It was at the Biltmore Fashion Park, but I think it’s a chain.

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Lunch the next day was at Gallo Blanco.  This is the restaurant attached to the Clarendon Hotel, where Leslie and Peter held their wedding reception.

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A really good picture of the steak burrito I had.

For dinner I went with Sarah to Pita Jungle which is quite near where Leslie and Peter live.  I had the chicken shawarma pita.

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I also made fun of Sarah for being on her phone a lot.  I think she was “checking us in” so I figured I’d photograph her and instagram it.  That sounds about right, doesn’t it?

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The next day was race day.  After the race we got Pita Jungle again!

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(Falafel wrap, SOOOO delicious!)

Dinner was at Barrio Cafe.

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Guacamole—they make this to your specifications right by the table.  We had it with everything, and it was awesome!

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Seafood Enchiladas.  I took half of this home because I ate some much of the guacamole.  Squash dipped in cream sauce is a really delicious thing though.

Next day: Lunch at the Oink Cafe.

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How can you not love a place with the tagline:  Breakfast. Lunch. Bacon.??

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Bacon Eggs Benedict.  I was having intense salt cravings so I asked to substitute hash browns for the fruit…that’s probably part of why my pants are tight.  Among other reasons.  Really, which I’m all listing here.  We ate out a ridiculous amount!

Dinner:  The Main Ingredient.

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I don’t know what dressing they use on their side salad, but it’s amazing.  I’ve eaten here before too and it’s great.  I also like how when you get a side salad with your sandwich they don’t give you a measly portion, it’s a really huge one.  Oh my god, I’m waxing poetic about the size of a side salad, aren’t I?

And, last but not least:  naturally we had to hit up Taco Bell at least once…

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I cannot think of anything more disgusting than that, yet I am tempted.  Sadly, or fortunately, I don’t think we have breakfast at Taco Bell here.

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I think that was enough hot sauce for two girls to eat four items from Taco Bell. 

Have you been to Phoenix?  Are any of these places your favorites?

Traveling the world

My parents have always emphasized the importance of getting out there and seeing the world.  I grew up in South Carolina, but my grandparents lived in Ohio and Pennsylvania and we were often driving up to visit.  Along the way we’d stop in Virginia or other places to visit other family members, or we’d go to Philadelphia or New York City with our family in Pennsylvania.

We also spent a lot of time exploring our home state of South Carolina.  We’d drive to the beach for a weekend, or to nearby historical or ecological places of interest like Chimney Rock, Cowpens, or the Riverbanks Zoo for a day trip or a weekend camping trip.  In the summer we’d take longer trips, to the Grand Canyon, or to California and Banff, or to the Great Lakes.  I learned that there was a whole world out there and it was important to explore it and learn as much as you could about it.

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As a family of five or six (the sixth came later), the best way to see the world was to drive there.  If we stayed overnight somewhere, we generally camped.  We’d load up the car with the tent, sleeping bags, suitcases, camp stove, bug spray, water bottles, and bags of books, and off we’d go.  My mother would encourage us to keep journals on the longer trips (some of which are still CLASSIC reading when we visit—I’d say my early journals were the precursors to this blog, in fact, I was perhaps the first Healthy Living Blogger as I’d generally document every meal!).

As I grew older I continued traveling though often the reasons were different.  I’d travel for music festivals, to Colorado, to Europe, to small towns in Ohio.  I’d travel to visit Chris in Miami, Cleveland, and San Diego.  I’d travel for auditions for orchestras—to Houston, Minneapolis, and Pittsburgh.

And sometimes I’d get to travel for fun.  One of my favorite relaxing vacations is going on cruises (like for our honeymoon, and the summer before that, and Chris recently suggested we might want a cruise this summer).  There’s just something about being somewhere warm, eating a ton and lying around drinking pina coladas to your heart’s content.  Though going to Paris was amazing as well—tons of sightseeing and walking around, yet still eating a ton and drinking wine to our heart’s content.  (You see a theme here, right?  This is why I’m fat…)

If you read my blog regularly you probably notice I do tend to get to travel a lot.  I’ve got another trip to Phoenix coming up soon, and we just got back from Chicago.  After that I actually don’t have anything planned until the summer though.  Summer plans so far definitely include a trip to Long Island for my sister-in-law’s wedding and possibly another wedding or two. 

We’ve also tossed out the possibility of a cruise (There’s a great guide in the New York Times about cruising)—I’d love to do an Alaskan cruise out of Seattle, because that would be all-new to us– or you could visit a “sleeper city” like St Louis for fairly cheap (I love that Phoenix is also on that list!)  If you are ready to book your vacation you can go here for airfare, hotels, and rental cars.  There are also more articles about various destinations.  I love reading about the travel possibilities and dreaming about my next trip…almost as much as I enjoy taking the trip!  (I also love writing about it later and reliving the experience while looking at my pictures.  To me this is all part of the travel experience.)

Where do you want to go?

Visiting Chicago in Winter

I didn’t start loving Chicago until I moved to St Louis.  It seems like everybody here loves taking trips to Chicago more than anything else. It’s easy to get to and there’s plenty to see and do and EAT.  It’s cold in the winter, sure, but it’s cold here too.

I’ve mentioned quite a bit of our trip already, so I just wanted to wrap it up and give a shout out to the restaurants we loved and to our hotel.  Namely, Blackbird and the Publican, and the Hotel James. (Or James Hotel?  I guess it’s just “The James.”)

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We chose Blackbird for our anniversary dinner.  (This was our first wedding anniversary so we were pretty psyched!)  We checked into the hotel in the early afternoon and then took naps.  I was woken up by one of the hotel staff delivering a bottle of champagne and chocolates with raspberries for us, free of charge! 

(I can’t say enough nice things about the hotel, actually.  We loved it there.)  It was great sipping on champagne while getting dressed up.

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What to order?  We decided on the sweetbreads and the scallops, and then I had the duck breast and Chris had the elk loin. 

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It was all really delicious.  I can’t decide if the duck or elk was my favorite.

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We decided not to order the $150 tea and instead had just regular old french press coffee.

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With cheesecake with sweet potato ice cream.  It was a wonderful meal and a wonderful day! 

We could have eaten at a world class restaurant for every meal, but we wanted to be lazy and spontaneous to some extent, so we only planned one other “fancy” meal.  I had been to the Publican before but Chris hadn’t. 

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(I wore my best gray sweater.)

It was super dark in the restaurant and I detest taking flash photos in restaurants.  Not even because of the quality, but because it makes you look like a fool.

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This deserved one though.  Short Ribs, Korean BBQ style, so juicy and delicious, with peanuts and cole slaw and it was just amazing.  We also had a charcuterie plate, potatoes, and swiss chard.  For dessert we had “Rice Pudding Creme Brulee” which was phenomenal as well.

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Other notable things we did in Chicago: 

We went up the John Hancock Building to the Signature Room and had a drink while enjoying the scenery.

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We went to see “Second City’s Guide to the Opera,” with Patrick Stewart and Renee Fleming.  The show was hilarious and highly entertaining!  Plus our friend John was playing violin.

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We went to a restaurant called Heaven on Seven that had a wall of hot sauce!

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And we tried to perfect the couple self portrait.

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How’d we do? Chris has gotten a lot of compliments on his fantastic beard.

No longer a newlywed

Reasons why it’s awesome we are no longer newlyweds:

1. They say the first year is the hardest.  We have that behind us!

2. I no longer have the pressure of using an awesome wedding photo as my facebook profile picture, since it’s been kinda too long for that, so I can use ANYTHING I want, which is what I used to do, and I’d switch it up all the time.  I can do that again.  (I am half kidding, but honestly, I get bored with my picture a lot so it’s great to be able to switch it out and not feel bad.)

Right now, it’s this, for instance.

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but maybe soon I’ll switch it to this:

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or this

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or this

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or this (only $50, a bargain!)

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The possibilities are endless (especially since I take pictures of myself and other things every day)!

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Things that I annoy me about being married (or perhaps, being a 30-something female):

I get a lot of questions about

1. When we are having children (or, worse, am I expecting?)

2. How have our lives changed since we got married. 

These are both two really good questions. 

One of the things Chris and I have been discussing on our vacation is how I should respond to these questions, particularly the first one.  We’re working on a good response.  I try not to use profanity on the blog, so I can’t actually print my response here, but I have one now.  Suffice it to say that people are very nosy and need to mind their own business. 

The second question is  a perfectly good question, except that it’s kind of silly.  The short answer is our lives haven’t changed at all, since we have been together since February of 1999.  The long answer is, a lot more people ask me when I’m having children, but people no longer ask when we are getting married. 

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Things that are awesome about being on vacation in a nice hotel in a nearby city:

1. No real pressure to sight see since you’ve been here before and you’ll be back, so you can spend almost the whole day relaxing at the hotel. 

2. If you do choose to leave the hotel, when you come back the room is magically clean!  This is the opposite of being at home.

3. You can leave a ponytail holder on the nightstand overnight.  When you wake up it is still there!

4.  King size bed and amazing in-shower stuff.

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Things that are great about being on vacation generally and not having to drive or work or do anything really:

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Among others 🙂  And fantastic food.  Highlights of our trip restaurant wise include Blackbird and The Publican.  I will likely tell you more about those later.  IMG_3905

From the hotel gym: unfortunately I did not stop exercising at the first sign of discomfort.  (I think I thought my head was fuzzy, but perhaps it was just the picture.)

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Looking forward to this tonight!