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Traveling the world

My parents have always emphasized the importance of getting out there and seeing the world.  I grew up in South Carolina, but my grandparents lived in Ohio and Pennsylvania and we were often driving up to visit.  Along the way we’d stop in Virginia or other places to visit other family members, or we’d go to Philadelphia or New York City with our family in Pennsylvania.

We also spent a lot of time exploring our home state of South Carolina.  We’d drive to the beach for a weekend, or to nearby historical or ecological places of interest like Chimney Rock, Cowpens, or the Riverbanks Zoo for a day trip or a weekend camping trip.  In the summer we’d take longer trips, to the Grand Canyon, or to California and Banff, or to the Great Lakes.  I learned that there was a whole world out there and it was important to explore it and learn as much as you could about it.

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As a family of five or six (the sixth came later), the best way to see the world was to drive there.  If we stayed overnight somewhere, we generally camped.  We’d load up the car with the tent, sleeping bags, suitcases, camp stove, bug spray, water bottles, and bags of books, and off we’d go.  My mother would encourage us to keep journals on the longer trips (some of which are still CLASSIC reading when we visit—I’d say my early journals were the precursors to this blog, in fact, I was perhaps the first Healthy Living Blogger as I’d generally document every meal!).

As I grew older I continued traveling though often the reasons were different.  I’d travel for music festivals, to Colorado, to Europe, to small towns in Ohio.  I’d travel to visit Chris in Miami, Cleveland, and San Diego.  I’d travel for auditions for orchestras—to Houston, Minneapolis, and Pittsburgh.

And sometimes I’d get to travel for fun.  One of my favorite relaxing vacations is going on cruises (like for our honeymoon, and the summer before that, and Chris recently suggested we might want a cruise this summer).  There’s just something about being somewhere warm, eating a ton and lying around drinking pina coladas to your heart’s content.  Though going to Paris was amazing as well—tons of sightseeing and walking around, yet still eating a ton and drinking wine to our heart’s content.  (You see a theme here, right?  This is why I’m fat…)

If you read my blog regularly you probably notice I do tend to get to travel a lot.  I’ve got another trip to Phoenix coming up soon, and we just got back from Chicago.  After that I actually don’t have anything planned until the summer though.  Summer plans so far definitely include a trip to Long Island for my sister-in-law’s wedding and possibly another wedding or two. 

We’ve also tossed out the possibility of a cruise (There’s a great guide in the New York Times about cruising)—I’d love to do an Alaskan cruise out of Seattle, because that would be all-new to us– or you could visit a “sleeper city” like St Louis for fairly cheap (I love that Phoenix is also on that list!)  If you are ready to book your vacation you can go here for airfare, hotels, and rental cars.  There are also more articles about various destinations.  I love reading about the travel possibilities and dreaming about my next trip…almost as much as I enjoy taking the trip!  (I also love writing about it later and reliving the experience while looking at my pictures.  To me this is all part of the travel experience.)

Where do you want to go?

Visiting Chicago in Winter

I didn’t start loving Chicago until I moved to St Louis.  It seems like everybody here loves taking trips to Chicago more than anything else. It’s easy to get to and there’s plenty to see and do and EAT.  It’s cold in the winter, sure, but it’s cold here too.

I’ve mentioned quite a bit of our trip already, so I just wanted to wrap it up and give a shout out to the restaurants we loved and to our hotel.  Namely, Blackbird and the Publican, and the Hotel James. (Or James Hotel?  I guess it’s just “The James.”)

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We chose Blackbird for our anniversary dinner.  (This was our first wedding anniversary so we were pretty psyched!)  We checked into the hotel in the early afternoon and then took naps.  I was woken up by one of the hotel staff delivering a bottle of champagne and chocolates with raspberries for us, free of charge! 

(I can’t say enough nice things about the hotel, actually.  We loved it there.)  It was great sipping on champagne while getting dressed up.

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What to order?  We decided on the sweetbreads and the scallops, and then I had the duck breast and Chris had the elk loin. 

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It was all really delicious.  I can’t decide if the duck or elk was my favorite.

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We decided not to order the $150 tea and instead had just regular old french press coffee.

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With cheesecake with sweet potato ice cream.  It was a wonderful meal and a wonderful day! 

We could have eaten at a world class restaurant for every meal, but we wanted to be lazy and spontaneous to some extent, so we only planned one other “fancy” meal.  I had been to the Publican before but Chris hadn’t. 

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(I wore my best gray sweater.)

It was super dark in the restaurant and I detest taking flash photos in restaurants.  Not even because of the quality, but because it makes you look like a fool.

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This deserved one though.  Short Ribs, Korean BBQ style, so juicy and delicious, with peanuts and cole slaw and it was just amazing.  We also had a charcuterie plate, potatoes, and swiss chard.  For dessert we had “Rice Pudding Creme Brulee” which was phenomenal as well.

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Other notable things we did in Chicago: 

We went up the John Hancock Building to the Signature Room and had a drink while enjoying the scenery.

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We went to see “Second City’s Guide to the Opera,” with Patrick Stewart and Renee Fleming.  The show was hilarious and highly entertaining!  Plus our friend John was playing violin.

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We went to a restaurant called Heaven on Seven that had a wall of hot sauce!

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And we tried to perfect the couple self portrait.

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How’d we do? Chris has gotten a lot of compliments on his fantastic beard.

No longer a newlywed

Reasons why it’s awesome we are no longer newlyweds:

1. They say the first year is the hardest.  We have that behind us!

2. I no longer have the pressure of using an awesome wedding photo as my facebook profile picture, since it’s been kinda too long for that, so I can use ANYTHING I want, which is what I used to do, and I’d switch it up all the time.  I can do that again.  (I am half kidding, but honestly, I get bored with my picture a lot so it’s great to be able to switch it out and not feel bad.)

Right now, it’s this, for instance.

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but maybe soon I’ll switch it to this:

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or this

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or this

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or this (only $50, a bargain!)

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The possibilities are endless (especially since I take pictures of myself and other things every day)!

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Things that I annoy me about being married (or perhaps, being a 30-something female):

I get a lot of questions about

1. When we are having children (or, worse, am I expecting?)

2. How have our lives changed since we got married. 

These are both two really good questions. 

One of the things Chris and I have been discussing on our vacation is how I should respond to these questions, particularly the first one.  We’re working on a good response.  I try not to use profanity on the blog, so I can’t actually print my response here, but I have one now.  Suffice it to say that people are very nosy and need to mind their own business. 

The second question is  a perfectly good question, except that it’s kind of silly.  The short answer is our lives haven’t changed at all, since we have been together since February of 1999.  The long answer is, a lot more people ask me when I’m having children, but people no longer ask when we are getting married. 

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Things that are awesome about being on vacation in a nice hotel in a nearby city:

1. No real pressure to sight see since you’ve been here before and you’ll be back, so you can spend almost the whole day relaxing at the hotel. 

2. If you do choose to leave the hotel, when you come back the room is magically clean!  This is the opposite of being at home.

3. You can leave a ponytail holder on the nightstand overnight.  When you wake up it is still there!

4.  King size bed and amazing in-shower stuff.

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Things that are great about being on vacation generally and not having to drive or work or do anything really:

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Among others 🙂  And fantastic food.  Highlights of our trip restaurant wise include Blackbird and The Publican.  I will likely tell you more about those later.  IMG_3905

From the hotel gym: unfortunately I did not stop exercising at the first sign of discomfort.  (I think I thought my head was fuzzy, but perhaps it was just the picture.)

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Looking forward to this tonight!

St Louis to Chicago by train

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It was dark, but still, fun views of the Arch you don’t get just anywhere.

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This was a lie. The wi-fi didn’t work.

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The postcard view!

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And then Chicago.

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At the Signature Room at the John Hancock building.  I’m hiding behind my husband like a good wife.

Mallorca and Harry Potter

Does your brain ever make really random connection in your head?  Often I’ll hear or read something that will make a connection to something else I read in a book or perhaps, happened in real life, and then (here’s where the mistake comes in) try to explain it to somebody else.  You’ll get blank stares and possibly start worrying they are sending the men in little white coats for you.

Many of my connections like this come from books I’ve read many times.  I saw something on television the other day about Mallorca, for instance, and I immediately thought of Harry Potter AND other random British Chick-Lit books I’ve read.  This set off a bit of internet searching, as I realized I knew very little about Mallorca. 

Okay, first off, to explain the Harry Potter reference: if you are a bit of a Harry Potter nerd, you might already know, but there are two references to Mallorca (or Majorca) in the books (I cite the Harry Potter wiki here, but I already knew that.)  Evidently Mallorca is a “popular tourist destination for Europeans.” Unfortunately the Dursleys never made it to Mallorca but I’d like to think that Harry and his family might go for relaxing Mallorca holidays after ridding the world of Voldemort, don’t you think?  Then again, knowing that the Dursleys wanted to go there…hmm…it’s a tough call.  I suppose things ended on decent terms with Dudley, didn’t they.  Maybe they’d all meet up every couple of years and split a villa?

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I’m over thinking this, don’t you?  But I think I’m obsessing over tropical or beach vacations since the weather here has finally gotten cold…it’s not like I’m in bikini shape right now (this is a lie, the advantage of a bikini is you have extra room around the middle so your stomach size doesn’t matter) but I can certainly imagine lying in the sun, listening to the ocean waves and perhaps drinking a pina colada.  Then again, when CAN’T I imagine that?

The thing is, who but the very wealthy would ever go to Europe from the US to go for a beach vacation?  We have the Caribbean much closer. 

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If we are going to fly to Europe we’re going to (generally) do something much more standard—visit a great city with lots of culture and museums.  Not lie on the beach or go cycling (apparently another big thing to do in Mallorca).  I know that people DO these things from the US, but I guess I can’t imagine myself ever doing it.  This makes a place like this even more exotic (and speaking of random connections, it makes me think of that Matt Damon movie, The Talented Mr. Ripley, and the beach scenes there…European beaches just seem so far away and so…FOREIGN to me.  In a good way!)

What about you?  Ever been to Mallorca or another European beach destination? Is your brain full of totally random connections where one word sets off a whole bunch of random thoughts and ideas cobbled together from books, movies, conversations, and research?

Is it too soon to plan another trip to paris?

I read a cousin’s Christmas letter today and he mentioned a trip his family took to Rome, Italy as the highlight of their year. I personally did not write a Christmas letter (I feel that this blog probably suffices and everybody I would send a letter to already knows more about my life than they even want to) but I was thinking about what the highlights of MY year would be if I were writing.  Two things stand out, of course—our wedding, and our trip to Paris.

I’m not planning to get married again, but I do want to go to Paris again.  There are blogs I read now just about living in Paris and sometimes I will do internet research, you know, just in case.  I also do this for other destinations and for cruises—I’m not alone in this am I?  How many people plan hypothetical trips to destinations they won’t be going to any time soon, just to pretend? (Next on my list is Rome…or London…or Spain…or another cruise…or Russia…)

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So, if you are planning a real OR hypothetical trip to Paris, where to start?

I think the most important thing to do is to figure out what neighborhood you want to stay in.  Until I booked our accommodations for our most recent trip, I was totally overwhelmed by the city, and after I knew where we’d be sleeping,  it became somehow more real that we were going, and I was able to better visualize the rest of the trip.

(Note to reader:  please do not actually book any rooms unless you are taking an actual trip.  I am not responsible for any money you lose planning a hypothetical trip.  In fact, I am not responsible for any money of yours at all.)

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(view from our window in Paris)

On our most recent trip to Paris (implying there have been many, right?), we wanted to stay somewhere centrally located so that we would have an easy time getting around the city. If you read all my blog posts about Paris you’ll learn that I became a huge fan of the Rick Steves travel book but initially I just talked to a bunch of people and did tons of searching online.  I found that the Marais neighborhood was centrally located, near a variety of Metro lines, and came highly recommended by friends. You can find a hotel here and very easily see where on the map you will be. 

I think for our next visit (fingers crossed, right?) we would want to stay near the Eiffel Tower since that ended up being our favorite destination.  In my “planning stage”  I also found this great resource on the NY Times website:  all kinds of information and recommendations for a Paris getaway.

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So tell me:  do you love to travel?  Do you daydream about travel destinations?  Where would be your number one place to go?